r/SFr4r Mar 07 '25

META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.

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r/SFr4r Feb 11 '23

META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.

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It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.

If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.

Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.

Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.

Use your head, and not the one in your pants.

Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.

Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.


r/SFr4r 7h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #SJ - post hockey game hook up

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I always have a lot of adrenaline after playing a hockey game and was thinking the other night how fun it would be to have a little after game fun. If you think hockey players are sexy, and like to taste the salty goodness of hard work as you take my throbbing cock into your mouth then we would be a perfect match. Even better if you show up after the gym just as sweaty! You can even come watch the game if you are into it (although men’s beer league hockey probably isn’t super exciting)

I’m 5’11, athletic body, blonde hair, nice big package, clean cut, successful career, funny and easy going. Let’s make out and feed off those natural pheromones!

Send me a message with a little about you and the word “slapshot” so I know you are real.

Preview:

https://postimg.cc/R6q3xsNT


r/SFr4r 1h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #DalyCity - looking for a girl to eat out

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Hello! 32 year old from San Francisco (close to SF State) looking for a girl to eat out. There is zero expectation of reciprocation, and no pressure for anything beyond me eating you out and fingering you.

I’m white, 5’8, 160 lbs, and ddf. I have my own place and can host, but open to talking in the lobby downstairs before you come up to my apartment if it makes you more comfortable! Scented candles and mood-setting lights will be included. I’m free the rest of the day today!


r/SFr4r 1h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Bearded and athletic, new to the city and looking for a FWB

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Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and I like to think attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!


r/SFr4r 2h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 30 [M4F] #EastBay- Daddy looking for his little

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I am looking for my little and someone that I can enjoy time with and hang out with. Someone to be there for me and me for them in this crazy world. Open/want to a relationship or something consistent but am okay with something more casual as well.

Me- 5'7”, East Asian, and healthy/lean. I do like working out and exercising although have gained quite a bit after hurting my ankle, But if you like a little dad bod, not going to complain about cutting cardio out. Also if you enjoy exercising that’s a huge plus. Gym buddies!

Some kinks: Daddy daughter, pet play, rope, choking/spanking, light bruising/punishment (spanking, etc.), rough, can also be sweet when needed, would love to incorporate a mommy into the RP (ie we have to sneak around and keep it a secret from mommy, or daddy is pissed at mommy so he goes to you). In general I also have a lactation, degradation (pretty big one actually), CNC and of course other dom/sub scenarios like teacher/student. These are just some of mine, there a more but drawing a blank when writing this.

Also love showing you off, would love for you to wear skimpy outfits (literally found out they’re called tiny tops, basically anything that your parents would not allow) when we go out so I can show you off the everyone and make them all jealous ;) Bonus points if you’re a typical Gen Z that posts tiktok dances in said skimpy outfits, I won’t mind and can even help film. This god very well with big boobs lol. I mean it is spring/summer and bikini is coming up, would not find helping you film tiktoks in those cute cheer uniforms.


r/SFr4r 3h ago

M4F 38 [M4FM] #Peninsula - BWC for Raceplay

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Hello! New to the upper Peninsula area and am looking for an Asian FWBs, or possibly some voyuer couple action.

I find raceplay very erotic, especially WMAF raceplay, but it's kind of a niche kink and difficult to find through more conventional channels (it's taboo and a little embarrassing to talk about...). Hence my post here.

About me: I'm 38, white, broad-chested, and well endowed. I'm a bit nerdy, love reading and hiking. I'm a normal person, just with a particular kink.

DM me with a note about yourself if interested!


r/SFr4r 4h ago

M4A 30 [M4A] #bayarea - in town between 9/10-27 for work and looking to hang out!

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Hey! I am coming into town and will be traveling all over the bay for work. Looking to hang out and maybe go on a fun date or just go get drinks/dinner or absolutely anything you are down for. DM me if you are interested and I can share whatever info you would like!


r/SFr4r 5h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Mountain View - ISO an affair partner

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I'm a 41 year old married guy who stays active, works out regularly, and enjoys good conversation as much as good chemistry. I love exploring new coffee shops, getting out into nature, and reading when I have the time. My bookshelf usually has fiction, philosophy, and the occasional romance. I'm also a fan of romance and thriller movies.

I'm looking for a woman around 30 or older (no upper bound) who understands the dynamic, values discretion and privacy, and ideally has experience navigating something like this before. Clear communication, mutual respect, and boundaries matter to me.

I'm not looking to change anyone's situation or create drama. I'm hoping to find someone who enjoys meaningful conversation, shared experiences, and genuine chemistry while keeping things private.

If that sounds like what you're looking for, send me a message.


r/SFr4r 8h ago

M4F 24 [M4F] #DalyCity - Fit Asian looking for cougars

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Good morning Bay Area, I'm a muscular 5'8, 145lbs Asian guy who older women/ cougars. Looking for a FWB situation and absolutely love eating you out, I can go multiple rounds as well. I'm clean, tested with results, and hygienic and would prefer you're the same. Let me know if you want to chat, I got a pic in my profile and down to send more, if you like Asian boys with biceps and abs hit me up!


r/SFr4r 8h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Alameda - Looking For Freaky Women To Have Fun With During My Lunch Break Or After I Get Off Work

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Hey Ladies I’m Anthony . Im black 31 6’2 245lbs working in Alameda. Im tryna be balls deep in some pussy today, either on my lunch break at 12:30 or when I get off work today at 3:30. Im looking for a horny woman who loves to get nasty. Im tryna eat pussy and ass before I start giving deep strokes, shit I need a woman who can match my energy. Im horny af and ready to give away some dick rn so dont hesitate baby im waiting on you.


r/SFr4r 10h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 33 [M4F] #Brentwood - Nothing better than a “plain Jane” woman with a thick mom bod that’s meant to be squeezed like my personal stress ball.

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You know the type (because I hope you see her when you look in a mirror lol): average looking face that doesn’t stand out in a crowd but has a juicy body that jiggles with every step and that’s usually covered up. Heavy mom tits, mom belly, thick thighs, fat ass.

If that sounds like you, then I’d love to chat.


r/SFr4r 10h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 58 [M4M] #Richmond - Discreet Oral Bottom Looking

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Good looking, masc, super fit, clean shaven, smooth body, bubble butt, clean, discreet, ddf (420 cool), neg, friendly guy. Oral bottom looking for masculine, friendly, clean horny guys in the East Bay area. Looking for oral play only for now. Not interested in reciprocation.

In Richmond area. Ok with safe car play or outdoors as I don’t host.

Hit me up and lets chat to see if we are both into it.

Oakland, Berkeley, Albany, Emeryville, El Cerrito, El Sobrante, Richmond, San Pablo, Pinole


r/SFr4r 21h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 29 [M4F] #MountainView - Looking for someone who likes bj's as much as I do

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I am a very horny individual who loves blowjobs. I also love eating pussy and more than willing to eat you out for as long as you want. I am looking for someone who also loves oral sex as much as I do. I can last days on a blowjob, and confident in my skills. I can blow 4 loads and still go for ages. Can’t host unfortunately. I have a tinted car if you don’t mind, I am 6ft Latino overweight with a average dick. I am free after 5:30 everyday, while being free the entire weekend.

If you are a guy interested the only way it would work out is a cross dressing femboy. If that's not you I have to pass.

I have a nsfw picture on my profile to see the average thing I got, it is thick I've been told.

Hope someone good responds!


r/SFr4r 15h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #Berkeley - Asian looking to cheat and nsa fun

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Disclaimer: I’m attached but I’m looking. If that’s not for you please scroll past. If you are curious, feel free to dm and ask questions. And if you don’t mind great.

I am hoping to find someone in a similar situation to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech and studied stem. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public guest and build trust and I know it’s not easy but it feels like if I don’t do this now I’ll never be happy.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested. Maybe we can chat over coffee or boba.


r/SFr4r 16h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 32 [M4F] #SF - Experienced bull looking for couples and single females

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Hi! I am an experienced bull looking for new/experienced couples along with single females. I travel to the bay area pretty regularly and can host or come over during my trips

About me : I am 32, 5’9, DDF, dom, 3x vaxxed, straight and enjoy kayaking, watching sports, finding treasures at Costco and traveling in my free time.

Looking for chill humans who value mutual respect, consent and discretion. I have a couple of posts on my profile with some of my recent experiences with other hotwifes and single women. Bonus points if you are Asian!

PS: not interested in men looking to sext about their wives


r/SFr4r 17h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 32 [M4F] #sanjose - fit handsome inked Asian

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Ladies! 32M here, recently got out of a toxic relationship. Fit, handsome, mixed Asian. Inked up nothing crazy. 5 11, muscular, respectful. Need to take my mind off some things, would love to play this week. Would love to either give or receive, enjoy both :) really love playing with sensitive breasts

- respond with ur favorite drink and where you’re located
- tell me about yourself!


r/SFr4r 18h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #peninsula - looking for a FWB, want to explore and have lots of fun together!

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Hey there! I’m 25 year old 5’10” 190lbs and go to the gym quite often. Im looking for a female or possibly even a couple to have fun together and be kinky together as well! Would like to meet one another have some drinks and see how the vibe is as well! I’m willing to exchange photos and verify before meeting of course! I look forward to hearing from everyone soon!


r/SFr4r 22h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 26 [M4A] #Mountain View - risque early morning carplay before work

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Hiii!

To be clear I am a bit picky but I would love to try some more experiences :3

I won't respond if you're not what I'm looking for/don't fit my criteria soz!

I'm straight and in a relationship but I have been a little curious on the thrill of being discreet. I would love someone that's the opposite of me, I am 6'4 athletic, masculine, not hairy, big arms, not too muscular (working on it againnn) the works.

I'm really just wanting someone to wakeup in the morning around 7am hop in my car and you give me a hj, bj, or if you want to ride pls bring a magnum for me hehe

I'd be doing this before work so around 7am so I'd be in my business attire if that does anything for you loool

This would be my FIRST experience with this so be gentle(and cute)


r/SFr4r 19h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 40 [M4F] #SanJose - male seeking female for some naughty fun

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Hello there. Im a 40 year old white male 6 ft tall average build with brown hair.

I am looking to feel that spark again with a woman who is looking for some naughty fun. I love foreplay and giving and recieving oral stimulation.

I would love to find a women who is available during the day on weekdays for one or more meetups a week for some naughty sexual fun that we both need and want.

I work during the week but usually have long breaks during my shift that I can make time for such fun activities.

I'll be honest I've been searching for awhile and it is hard to find someone. I did find someone a few years ago and we had something going for about a year until she moved to the east coast. I would love to find another ongoing thing.

I do like shy and wild women and I tend to be attractive to women who dont find themselves attractive for some reason, I can't resist them.

If this sounds like you let's chat and see where it goes, who knows it could go to the bedroom.


r/SFr4r 19h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Focused breast play for the extra sensitive

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I'm a big fan of extra sensitive breasts responsive to my touch and tongue. I've admired your curves during this weekend's bra-optional weather, the perkiness of your nipples poking through some barely veiled cloth, and wondered what it might be like to explore your sensitivity in the pursuit of discovering your peak pleasure. A grope, a squeeze, nipples firming up against my fingertip, your body bucking as jolts of pleasure ripple through you. Curious if you could orgasm from breast play alone? We'd have a lot of fun finding out!

I've had some good breast play experiences through Reddit (success stories in profile) and I'm curious if it could happen again. A few themes and scenarios for the breast play curious:

  1. You'd like some semi-public play of a hand grazing your breast over your shirt or slipping below a plunging neck line. A brief, discreet moment in the busy city or while we drive towards our next destination.
  2. You'd like to slow down and explore your pleasure potential and know breast play always amplifies your enjoyment. Your hands naturally wander to your breasts during self pleasure sessions but partnered play feels too eager to move on to other pursuits. You want the slow build, the focused attention, the discovery of your new favorite things guided by an obvious fan of your breasts and their sensitivities.
  3. Quality breast play is a good leading indicator of someone focused on your pleasure and in tune with your desires. You'd like to give yourself over to an experience completely focused on you once someone proves they're worthy of orchestrating your arousal.

I'm 45 years old, single, live alone in the Marina district of SF, and I'm able to host. 6' tall, respectful, sane, and discreet. Capable of carrying on a conversation before and in between breast dives and vocalizing my appreciation of your unique breast features and sensitivity throughout the experience. You might have caught me glancing too long at the outline of your breasts and perky nipples on bra-optional summer days while commuting to my professional job downtown, waiting for good coffee or espresso, or browsing a farmers market.

We might be a good, playful match if you:

  • Have perky, sensitive breasts C cup or smaller. 🍒
  • Would like to slow down and be more present in your arousal as it washes over you.
  • Are somewhere in between 20 and 40 years of age.
  • Are in San Francisco or near enough to make plans.

Let's lounge and enjoy slowly exploring, and fully appreciating, your extra-sensitive breasts. You might be curious about the unmet potential of focused breast play and what's possible with lots of attention from an obvious enthusiast. If you've wished for more breast play as a focus, not just foreplay, I think we'd have a lot of fun.


r/SFr4r 19h ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #SFBay - Make you feel helpless, vulnerable. Use you, CNC play

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Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, all limits respected.

Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.

Ben


r/SFr4r 19h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 38 [M4F] #Vacaville - Kinky Dom seeking female for kink/bdsm/cnc and more!

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Hello, Kinky girls of reddit!

I'm a 38-year-old, 5'7 215ish lbs clean cut respectful Dom with a heart of gold and a playful streak. I'm looking for a submissive to share in my passions and adventures. I love teaching new girls new things and helping them explore their more dark desires in a safe space, but also willing to play with someone with a little more experience.

About me:

  • I'm a bit of a nerd, loving gaming, tech, fitness and learning new things
  • I'm a romantic at heart, enjoying cuddling, role-playing, and surprise gifts
  • I'm a bit of a foodie, loving to cook and try out new restaurants
  • I'm big into fitness, specifically powerlifting. I am proud to say my gym PR's are Squat=515lb, Bench=365lb, Deadlift=515lb.
  • I'm single, no kids, no drama, introvert in my personal life, extravert in my professional life.

What I'm looking for:

  • A female submissive who is eager to explore desires and boundaries
  • Someone who enjoys role-playing, dirty talk/moaning, exploring taboo and non-taboo BDSM fun
  • A partner who values honesty, communication, and mutual respect. Everyone hates being ghosted, if you send one message and then never reply please do not even bother wasting our time
  • Someone who can appreciate my quirky sense of sarcastic humor and love for life
  • Someone who is interested in learning and is committed to regular meetups for practice. We can go more vanilla the first time, and slowly ramp up. Or go full hardcore mode the first time, as long as limits/safe words are established.

If you're looking for a Dom who is kind, caring, and always up for a good time, let's connect!

Please note:

  • I'm looking for someone who is 18+ in age.
  • I'm not interested in playing with anyone who is flaky or doesn't communicate well, you don't need to know everything just what you like and open to exploring.
  • I'm committed to safe, sane, and consensual play. I am a freak in the sheets, but outside the bedroom I am a pretty chill funny guy just taking it one day at a time.
  • After some hardcore fun, I do prefer aftercare and a good post-game breakdown. That way round 2 can be more stimulating and enjoyable for the both of us.
  • Sellers, scammers, "pay-for-play," escorts, "allowance" askers will immediately get blocked and reported. There are plenty of guys out there for that, not here. I am looking for something mutually fun and exciting, not to be a customer.

Let's have some fun and create our own adventure together!


r/SFr4r 20h ago

T4M 37 [T4M] #SanFrancisco - CD looking for fun

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Anyone looking for fun or enjoy receiving or giving oral? I also enjoy giving a body rub first then letting my mouth and tongue explore :) I'm also open to more if it goes there and open to any reciprocation. I'm a CD, white, 5'9 fit, clean (recently tested), laid-back and discreet.

I prefer to host in North Beach SF or may be able to travel if you're closeby. There are pictures in my profile and have others as well. When messaging, please include your age, height, weight, ethnicity and location. A semi-regular meetup would be great to find :)