r/bigboobproblems 12h ago

bras Question about spouse Spoiler

7 Upvotes

I am male and feel like a weirdo posting this. Serious question

I want to buy my wife a nice bra so I looked at the label of one of her bras in laundry. 34DDDD. 4 D’s. She is 5’3” 125- 130 lbs. I went to several stores and clerks told me there is not a bra that size. Would a 34F be close?

Thanking all in advance.


r/bigboobproblems 6h ago

need advice Workout influencer suggestions Spoiler

0 Upvotes

Hello. I’m in the process of working out to achieve my goal weight of 130. I’m currently 150 and I have 36DDD (F) boobs. Does anybody know any TikTok gym influencers or YouTube videos I can watch to know which bras to wear to the gym? I would even like to recreate some of their workouts. I’d type my weight in TikTok and get discouraged because everyone who’s 150 is flat chested so I can’t see how working out has changed their boob size. Any suggestions?


r/bigboobproblems 6h ago

RANT - advice welcome I can't find just plain simple bras! Spoiler

6 Upvotes

I swear, I can't find just plain bras in beige/brown/black! Everything feels like it has lace, charms/bows, bright colors or patterns, if not a combination of all of the above. Everything I can manage to find in my size (38HH UK, which I think is a US 38L) that's actually just plain are molded cups (or those spacer bras which are just fancy molded cups) which just don't work for my shape. I usually end up cutting off the bows and charms if they have any but I can't do anything about lace or color. I don't think I should have to spend time altering something I pay so much money for in the first place though. Argh!! I just want plain bras! Ones that are simple and comfortable and don't show through my clothes. How do you all manage? I'm so tired of being itchy and worried about my bra being visible.


r/bigboobproblems 22h ago

bras Glamorise Spoiler

0 Upvotes

Does anyone else have a bra from glamorise?

I sized up on their site and got a weird size back. I’m fitting in a 36F and it came back with a 36DD as the sizing with a measuring tape.

Thought I would ask if anyone’s experience with the bra and sizing on here before ordering.


r/bigboobproblems 6h ago

need advice What am I supposed to wear to a rave? Spoiler

2 Upvotes

I’m going to my first rave soon and genuinely have no idea what I’m supposed to wear.

Everything looks so cute on other people, but with a bigger chest I feel like half the outfits either wouldn’t fit properly, need constant adjusting, or make me worry I’m going to accidentally flash everyone the second I start dancing 😂

What do you girls usually wear to raves? Especially looking for something cute/sexy but actually supportive and comfortable enough to dance in all evening/night.

Would love to hear what’s worked for you! 💕


r/bigboobproblems 10h ago

need advice Building Self-Esteem

3 Upvotes

I constantly feel embarrassed because Ive been shamed my whole life. Im not sure it was always on purpose, but because of their size Im always objectified. (34I)

No one in my family can relate so I really do stand out. I was adopted.

What are some ways that you've overcome, or how do you respond to shaming or objectification? Id like to be able to wear an outfit without allowing the comments to bother me. There are always comments, people just cant help themselves, so how do I find esteem in all of this?


r/bigboobproblems 20h ago

Monthly Creep DM Megathread Spoiler

29 Upvotes

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r/bigboobproblems 2h ago

need advice Recent(ish) Boob Changes Spoiler

2 Upvotes

I am 30 and have had a large chest since my early 20s (natural breast growth). I got bra sized last week and am a 38D which isn’t like the largest. I went to the gym for the first time in awhile and I wore a sport bra that I have worn before, and when I went on the treadmill, it hurt my boobs and I had to hold them the whole time. I’ve thought that my boobs are getting bigger or maybe sagging, but I haven’t had this happen before. I’m really confused about why this would happen all of a sudden and I am wondering if I can even run anymore because of my boobs :( Any tips or information would be greatly appreciated.


r/bigboobproblems 3h ago

need advice How do you guys wash bras without the hooks catching on everything? Spoiler

9 Upvotes

My bra hooks keep catching on other clothes in the laundry, especially knits and anything delicate. Sometimes the hooks themselves also end up getting bent or damaged.

Do you guys fasten the hooks first, use a laundry bag, or just wash bras separately?