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OC Demon and Mess - Ep.107

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u/PricklyPricklyPear 1d ago

It’s ok to just pick up sushi with your hand

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u/SethLight 1d ago edited 1d ago

Etiquette is kind of hilarious. People don't realize culturally it's fine to pick up Sushi with your hands. While it's 'rude' to take more than 2 bites of the sushi or to mix your wasabi and soy sauce together and turn it into a dip.

With that said I can't imagine many who work in a sushi restaurant actually care about that stuff.

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u/sandwich_influence 1d ago

Wait. Mixing the wasabi into the soy sauce is considered rude?? I was always taught that was the proper way to do it.

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u/Travelin_Soulja 1d ago

I don't know if rude is the right word, but it's definitely not the way it's traditionally done. Dissolving wasabi in soy sauce weakens its heat and destroys its fresh aroma. It also leaves you unable to individually control how much wasabi and how much sauce you want on different cuts/pieces.

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u/zuzg 23h ago

Dissolving wasabi in soy sauce weakens its heat and destroys its fresh aroma.

Luckily that it's mainly horseradish anyway in the west, so no need to worry.

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u/megatheridium 18h ago

Yeah, actual wasabi is expensive and rare outside of Japan. If what you get is lighter, creamier, and softer than what you're used to it might actually be wasabi.

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u/noeinan 15h ago

Innit mainly horse radish in Japan too? Real wasabi cannot be farmed so it’s scarce even there.

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u/Willing_Soft_5944 13h ago

Its not impossible to farm, its difficult to farm, based on what I can find, 2 year harvest cycle, requires consistent cool temps and flowing water, not at all outside the scopes of what modern farming can handle.

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u/noeinan 13h ago

My fault for not being specific, I meant it is not farmed on a large scale. The combined cost and effort mean true wasabi is not mass produced, not enough to be a regular staple at most restaurants in Japan. Most restaurants in Japan use the same stuff we get overseas.

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u/Willing_Soft_5944 13h ago

That is a good point, the stuff seems like it takes some extremely dedicated setup to grow, makes sense it wouldn't be grown on a major scale.

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u/vitalvisionary 21h ago

It signals to the chef that they didn't prepare the sushi correctly. That's in Japan though. Most sushi chefs in the US are not Japanese.

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u/AmphibianMotor 20h ago

I mean, to be fair, I haven’t had any sushi outside Japan that has been prepared properly, so let’s just say it’s intentional 😂

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u/vitalvisionary 16h ago

Found one place near where I live, but I was lucky and I doubt they care if I add wasabi

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u/SethLight 1d ago

I use the word 'rude' loosely, because it's so common for people to do it, but ya it's uncouth according to Japanese etiquette.

It's also bad luck to stick your chopsticks in your rice.

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u/vitalvisionary 21h ago

Looks like incense for a shrine to the dead. Taboo in Korea too.

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u/ChaoCobo 18h ago

Where do you put your chopsticks? I seem to remember that you can put them flat over the top of your bowl, but that is if you are all done eating.

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u/Xylus1985 17h ago

You lay it flat on the table, or if you don’t want it touching the table, use a tiny rack to hold the tips up. Or you can also try to balance it on the top of the bowl, but this way it runs the risk of it falling off and onto the ground.

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u/gramathy 1d ago

Soy sauce is not traditionally a dipping sauce, it’s a cooking ingredient. It only gets used like that in western places, I suspect because we used to overcook rice (dry) and love salt.

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u/vitosvital 1d ago

Everyone loves salt

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u/Ralfarius 19h ago

Nigirizushi absolutely uses shoyu as a dip. Though one should be mindful to pnly pour enough for what they're eating and only the fish should touch it.

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u/Xylus1985 17h ago

Gatekeeping in sushi eating is frankly insane.

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u/Swert0 1d ago

My dyspraxia makes chopsticks too difficult, and I sure as shit am not using a fork on it.

They are finger food anywhere that isn't an upscale restaurant.

I will just not order it in a place like that to be polite to people around me.

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u/nox_tech 1d ago

From my experience, fancy omakase places also expect guests to pick up the sushi by hand, chopsticks are optional, little moist towel provided for cleaning your fingers too. They handle the wasabi and soy sauce if it's to be added to a specific piece.

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u/Pandaburn 22h ago

In my experience wasabi is added by the chef, but soy sauce is still available to the guest.

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u/General_Nothing 1d ago

Any actual upscale Japanese restaurant they would expect you to eat it with your hands.

That is the “correct” way to do it.

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u/imnotpoopingyouare 1d ago

Hell some of them even insist certain things be fed to you by hand from the sushi chef, like not even joking lol

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u/LemonKurry 1d ago

That's hot

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u/PzykoHobo 17h ago

Does he stare into my eyes while he does it?

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u/imnotpoopingyouare 17h ago

He even licks YOUR lips for you.

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u/PzykoHobo 17h ago

I.

Am.

SOLD.

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u/kitliasteele 23h ago

I have never been able to use chopsticks. Later find out my FND that has been worsening and developing over the decades is responsible, degrading that motor function. And here I thought I just couldn't manipulate them for the life of me! I can hella relate

But seriously, how do you guys do it with chopsticks?

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u/A-Wings-are-Neat 23h ago

I cradle the “lower” one in the joint between my thumb and index finger, and lock that down with my ring finger, then I hold the “top” chopstick like a pen and move it with my middle finger. No idea if that’s how you’re supposed to do it, but that’s what provides me the most control and leverage for the longest period of time. I usually use them when I don’t wanna get schmutz on my fingers, I can’t stand having stuff on my hands.

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u/kitliasteele 22h ago

I've tried doing something similar to that, but I think that demands too much bandwidth from my nerves to manage. I don't think I'm wired for chopsticks, it seems. Ah well! Not for everyone, but props to those who can use 'em :>

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u/Semper_5olus 1d ago

I can't use chopsticks either for exactly that reason.

I will barehand sushi and certain appetizers, but I will politely yet confidently ask for a fork in other circumstances.

Hell, if I'm not in America, I'll bring my own.

I like the food. I want to eat it. It's a compliment.

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u/shane-o-mack 1d ago

Upscale restaurants are dumb af then cus they don't even know you're not supposed to use chopsticks lol

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u/AshlarKorith 22h ago

Or is it all the people going there assume you’re supposed to use them, so they provide the experience people expect?

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u/anrwlias 1d ago

Technically correct but, outside of Japan, people are going to look at you weird if you do.

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u/Travelin_Soulja 1d ago edited 23h ago

You'll going far fewer weird looks using your fingers than you will using chopsticks like this....

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u/Cool_Set4681 1d ago

I didn't even notice it but this is apparently her third try to eat something 😭

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u/TheSandarian 12h ago

I could see that for seaweed-wrapped rolls, but almost all sushi I've had has sticky rice on the outside; no thanks.. (though I've been places with a small water bowl / damp towel to clean hands so maybe then, but still I view chopsticks as inherently cleaner)

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

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u/I-screwed-up-bad 1d ago

It's a street food. It was meant to be eaten with your hands originally.

My favorite foods are street foods. That's where the good stuff is.

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

Hell yeah, I love watching street food compilations on YouTube. Preferably from other countries. So much amazing stuff and my wife and I like to try to recreate (which doesn't always work. Some of those vendors move so fast).

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u/UpCDownCLeftCRightC Never Safe From Wumbo 1d ago

Fani knows how to dress up for a date, she looks gorgeous.

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

She's got one of the most attractive character designs I've seen in a long time. A huge part of it is Muy's style, which is just peak.

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u/UpCDownCLeftCRightC Never Safe From Wumbo 1d ago

Muy's strongest aspects in character designs is her use of colors and outfit. It can convey almost everything we need to know about a character just by looking at them.

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u/PirateSanta_1 1d ago

Fun fact, sushi is largly meant to be eaten with your hands so struggling with chopsticks is entirely unnecessary. Can't help with the not know what is fish or maybe thinking she was eating raw chicken?

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u/Cool_Set4681 1d ago

I feel personally attacked. No need to call me out like that.

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

Yeah, my wife and kids tease me because I'm hopeless with chopsticks and they're all amazing at it.

Gotta be these big, strong, man hands. Gotta be. 😭

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u/Cool_Set4681 1d ago

I knew that this was you in the picture that I saw!

my wife and kids tease me because I'm hopeless with chopsticks

That's so adorable. 🥲

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

Haha, no comment. 🥵

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u/Cool_Set4681 1d ago

You dawg 😏

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

This is my favorite Fani frame of all time, and is also one of the funniest fucking things I've read in forever.

Lord I love her. My favorite mess. Must protect at all costs.

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u/Cool_Set4681 1d ago

Reminded me about this

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u/dumnezero Art enjoyer 1d ago

me talking to ketobros

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u/Cool_Set4681 1d ago

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u/furiouspossum 1d ago

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u/finrandojin_82 1d ago

9 days into Keto and I would literally murder someone for some potato chips or even just a baguette...
Time to check my fridge again, Yep, still only veggies, chiken and eggs.

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u/Boom_the_Bold 21h ago

I recently found out I'm Diabetic, so I just don't get to eat 'em ever again, apparently! 🥔

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u/dumnezero Art enjoyer 15h ago

As that sounds like type2, you should be aware that there are ways to reverse that. Potatoes don't have to be off the table.

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u/Saikotsu 1d ago

I've never heard of it called River Chicken, but I love the term.

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u/midnightsbane04 23h ago

Some major Jessica Simpson vibes, "Chicken of the Sea".

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u/sp33dzer0 1d ago

I'm in this picture and I don't like it.

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire 1d ago

This poor girl.

There is no shame in ordering something safe in an unfamiliar environment.

Besides mozzarella sticks rule

Also someone should get her a barf bag

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u/Loqol 1d ago

There is a place downtown that serves a mozzarella stick the size of your forearm. I think they call it the Thunder Rod.

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire 1d ago

I'm not sure if that sounds amazing or disgusting but I want one

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u/Single-Pin-369 23h ago

The ratio between filling and crust is very important and the ratio of this forearm sized mozz stick is almost certainly off. 

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u/Nirast25 1d ago

That sounds like a food item Mordecai and Rigby from Regular Show would want to eat.

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

Fuck I want some mozz sticks now.

Let's do lunch homie

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire 1d ago

With mozzie sticks?! You don't have to tempt me like that

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

They're my second favorite appetizer after fried bleu cheese bites.

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u/FlatHatJack 1d ago

As someone who's been mentally locked in on the stuff I like to eat, I've been trying to expand my palate where I can these last few years, biggest self rule is avoiding the default "burger", or in this case the "mozzarella sticks", option. But with the follow up of making sure I understand each ingredient in the meal description.

Turns out, I like a lot more variety of cheeses than I thought.

That said, River Chicken is just deceptive. Who does that?

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u/IndiscreetLurker 1d ago

I have a hard time picturing the sushi restaurant that has "river chicken" on the menu.

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u/Semper_5olus 1d ago

Literally my favorite food.

My death row last meal.

Hell, they're my preferred mode of execution.

MOZZARELLA STICKSSSSS

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u/duralumin_alloy 10h ago

Barf bag? She thought she was eating RAW CHICKEN and was fine with that. She must have an iron stomach. Me on the other hand will now need that barf bag.

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u/Hrtzy 6h ago

Her stomach may be iron, but her head is quite the different matter.

A lot of gagging (especially for Fani) is psychological. I have heard of ex-Jews and ex-Muslims gagging on their first bite of bacon, and that people from India might gag at the thought of eating partially digested milk with mold growing on it.

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u/findingmyself37 1d ago

It's ok, that guy holds his chopsticks too low to be judging anyone.

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u/Urag-gro_Shub 1d ago

I don't really care for cooked fish either, but I LOVE sushi and sashimi. It has a much milder flavor than cooked fish

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u/vitalvisionary 21h ago

People been over cooking your fish. I like to broil mine in butter and lemon juice with onion slices covering the top to keep it moist. Really hard to get that sweet spot between under and over cooked but really worth it. I bought a meat thermometer just to get it right.

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u/the_greatest_auk 1d ago

If dude knows Fani doesn't like fish, why go to a sushi restaurant?

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u/Pollia 22h ago

Okay but she also didn't react until he said it was fish, so she obviously doesn't actually hate fish, she thinks she hates fish.

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u/jerslan 20h ago

Or she loves fish and hates the idea of eating them?

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u/TriiiKill 22h ago

Is it a sushi restaurant? Or did she just order sushi?

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u/dragonseth07 1d ago

She was fine until he said that. Which means she is fine eating it, and now she knows it.

There's no need to hide behind fake food names anymore! Break the chains of your own psychology!

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u/Lord_NOX75 1d ago

what is river chicken ? i never heard of that term and looking up on google doesn't help

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u/Dragos_Drakkar 22h ago

I suppose it may be a play on the chicken of the sea.

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u/Dry_Refrigerator7898 21h ago

It’s not a real thing. It’s the kind of little white lie parents tell kids who are being picky to try to get them to eat new foods.

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u/foehammer111 1d ago

I dated a girl who said sushi was an aphrodisiac for her. I had never had sushi before, but I took her to a nice place with the expectation of getting laid afterwards.

I got violently ill from the food, so sex was not on the menu that night.

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u/ConsoleCleric_4432 1d ago

Can't help the river fish, but to anyone nervous about trying sushi who can't use chopsticks, I'm pretty sure it is not frowned upon to eat with your fingers. I know my way around chopsticks to a solidly "okay" extent, but when it inevitably falls apart, gotta resort to the tried and true fingies.

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u/CrazyLi825 1d ago

Yeah, sushi is a finger food

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u/DarkScruff 1d ago

It's ok, let's get you some nuggets

https://giphy.com/gifs/oNDU0ej5Kk0LRLycYE

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u/decoy321 18h ago

Wait. Who is this dude?

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u/Beckphillips 13h ago

I am confused. How did we get here..?

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u/LongCommercial8038 1d ago

Time to start calling chicken Land Fish.

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u/The_Pastmaster 1d ago

I can eat with chop sticks, but my hand hurts like hell afterwards.

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u/TheDarkNerd 1d ago

Dear lord, Toni, what have you been cooking for her? Her dietary tastes are a pure mess!

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u/crusoe 1d ago

Its perfectly acceptable to eat nigiri with your fingers.

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u/wutImiss 1d ago

Fani is so adorkable here 😁 that last panel is fantastic! 👌

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u/tinylittlebabyjesus 22h ago

So uh.. did her parents call it river chicken or something to make her eat it so they could have sushi?

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u/Positive_Conflict_26 14h ago

Why is he taking someone who hates fish to a sushi restaurant?

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u/Beneficial_Flan8661 13h ago

Tbh, i never heard someone who hates fish hating sushi

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u/Natural_Bathroom5664 1d ago

I'm guessing River Chicken was the dish name.

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u/shane-o-mack 1d ago

The funny thing is that you're not even supposed to use chopsticks when eating sushi...makes you look silly. Don't get mad at me lol literal Japanese sushi master chefs say this...

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u/TheBohemianRed9811 1d ago

Anyone want to guess what she thinks a titmouse is?

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u/N3wAfrikanN0body 22h ago

Yeah girl, hurt me too when I realized. 

But weed helps :) 

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u/Hljoumur 21h ago edited 18h ago

Ironic because sushi in traditional sushi restaurants (high-end, without prices) in Japan is a hand food

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u/6apa6ax 9h ago

Wait until she finds out about mountain chicken.

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u/Tharrius 13h ago

Am I the only one who finds it very irritating how the comics appear completely out of order, so there's no functional storytelling to follow just by checking this sub?
It feels like this is jumping through 5 different time periods without giving an idea of where and when and why we are. No other comic series in this sub does that.