r/SFr4r Mar 07 '25

META If you're going to report a post (please do), do it like this.

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r/SFr4r Feb 11 '23

META PSA: Don't be an idiot, if it seems suspicious, it is.

196 Upvotes

It is sad for several reasons that I have to write this, but, our community has been fraught with scammers as of recent. We play whack-a-mole, and knock down > 100 fraudulent posts a day but some still get through.

If someone is asking to communicate outside of reddit, ESPECIALLY IF THEY'RE ASKING FOR COMPROMISING PICTURES, just say no. We've had several instances where the scammer receives said photos, and then immediately adds all of your friends and family to a group chat on your social media and attempts to share the pictures if you don't pay them off.

Men: Understand that women in this society have disproportionate access to sex; and you're not god's gift to the 'fairer sex', ergo if someone is begging you to send them a photo of your shlong right out of the gate, you should treat that request with the healthy amount of skepticism that it deserves.

Or don't, feel free to be one of the horror stories in mod-mail of someone sending your friends and family a photo of your dick.

Use your head, and not the one in your pants.

Women: Have patience. We sort through a shit-show on a regular basis. In the off-chance you post something that smells suspiciously like the 1000 pieces of scam/spam we just cleared and we ask you for a bit of additional information; calling us 'sexist' in modmail just makes you the asshole and part of the problem. Sorry not sorry.

Everyone: do your part to flag obvious scam posts. Of 45k users, most scam posts don't get flagged at all.


r/SFr4r 8h ago

M4F 37 [M4F] #SJ - post hockey game hook up

6 Upvotes

I always have a lot of adrenaline after playing a hockey game and was thinking the other night how fun it would be to have a little after game fun. If you think hockey players are sexy, and like to taste the salty goodness of hard work as you take my throbbing cock into your mouth then we would be a perfect match. Even better if you show up after the gym just as sweaty! You can even come watch the game if you are into it (although men’s beer league hockey probably isn’t super exciting)

I’m 5’11, athletic body, blonde hair, nice big package, clean cut, successful career, funny and easy going. Let’s make out and feed off those natural pheromones!

Send me a message with a little about you and the word “slapshot” so I know you are real.

Preview:

https://postimg.cc/R6q3xsNT


r/SFr4r 12m ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 46 [M4FM] #SanJose - Long haired, sensual man seeks couple for indulgent threesomes

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Hi there I’m looking for a chill couple that is looking for a male to join for occasional threesomes. I am straight, so for me this is about focusing on the woman’s pleasure.

In the bedroom my strengths are my stamina, my control and my carnal desire. I enjoy long/multiple sessions. I have a natural and sensual way about me. I enjoy being masculine in general but I am not a dom/bull type. I am looking for a chill vibe centered around sensual pleasure. I prefer if the woman can have multiple orgasms as I take great pleasure in causing pleasure and so this creates a feedback loop for me that’s very nice.

I am 46, white, 6’1”, 195lbs, I workout and run regularly. I have LONG blonde/brown/ashy hair and still have all of it. I have blue eyes and I wear glasses and I usually have a clean shaven face. Kind of a cute nerd crossed with a surfer. Also I’ve had a vasectomy.

I’m divorced but it was an ENM relationship for the last 6+ years so I’m experienced with alternative social dynamics in this realm.

I enjoy weed and alcohol in moderation and prefer if you are similar. I’m open to limited and conscious use of other substances as well.

I’m not a kinky type, so I’m not looking for any “scenarios”. The scenario I want is for the woman to love cock so much she wants two at a time.


r/SFr4r 16m ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 28 [M4F] #Berkeley - tomorrow visit a bakery for breakfast/lunch + maybe coffee, and hook-up after?

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Just thought it’d be fun to be kind of a dumb slut tonight or tomorrow since I have the day off. I have a place in mind and it is pretty accessible by car for parking and bus. I am taller than 6ft which is just nice by default. This is for tomorrow but if I like your message maybe we plan later-in September


r/SFr4r 54m ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - it’s Sept. 1 - did you have your wet girl summer? If not, this former masseuse would love to help.

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tl;dr Fit white collar professional and former masseuse wants to massage and eat you out for hours before summer ends.

Ladies of SFr4r,

There are 22 days until the official start of Fall, and I want to ensure that it doesn’t start without you having your wet girl summer (or, if you’re so inclined, an early start to Freaky Fall).

So, whether you’re a professional who worked hard but didn’t play hard this summer, a mother who’s been shouldering the load of her family while deprioritizing her own needs, a partner who’s neglected and unsatisfied in the bedroom, you’re self conscious about squirting, or you’re just craving a few hours of dedicated stress release, I’d love to help.

If you’ve made it this far, you’re probably thinking “this sounds great, but what will you do differently?”

Well, I firmly believe wet girl summers and massages go hand in hand.

So, I would start by meticulously massaging your neck and shoulders, carefully yet firmly working out any tension you've been holding.

I would slowly take my time working down your back, mapping and savouring every inch of you as my fingers follow a trail of my kisses, releasing every knot along the way.

I would caress every inch of your feet, and gently move up your calves and inner thighs, feeling your legs slowly part as my fingers graze your labia, a tease of what’s to come.

I would meticulously knead your ass, firmly releasing the tension in your glutes as my thumbs occasionally brush your asshole, and a moan escapes your lips.

I would whisper into your ear to turn over as I kiss your neck and run my fingers through your hair.

I would gently roll your nipples between my fingers as my lips explore your collar bones and the nape of your neck.

I would taste and feel every inch of you as I work my way down your body as your hands run through my hair in hungry anticipation.

I would passionately suck on your clit and taste every drop of your wetness as my tongue slowly travels from your clit to the base of your labia, and back.

I would deeply worship your asshole, giving it the love and attention that it deserves, licking every crevice.

I would want to feel your thighs tighten around my head as you sit on my face, your fingers gripping my hair and your moans echoing through the room, as your body is overcome with pleasure while you cum.

And I would want to do this for hours. Over, and over, and over, again.

About me

I’m a well educated, successful, white collar professional living in SF who wants to leave you quivering with pleasure. I had a part-time job as a masseuse during my younger years. Physically I’m 5’10, conventionally attractive, fit with a runners body and some muscle. DDF (recently tested) and fully vaccinated.

Sexually I’m a switch, with an insatiable curiosity in the bedroom - I like to try everything twice, am kink friendly, and non judgmental.

Your safety and comfort are my priority, so I’m happy to chat, verify, and grab a coffee / drink in public before playing. I’m also discreet.

About You

Aged 20-60. Love receiving oral and massages, and sitting on faces. Open to pillow princesses and dominant ladies alike. All races and body types welcome. STI free and recently tested. Bonus points if you’re a bit kinky and/or if you squirt :)


r/SFr4r 1h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 22 [M4FM] #SanFrancisco -Twink looking for forced bi

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Hey college twink here 5'6, 135lbs, fit, hygienic, unfortunately not able to host but promise I'll make it worth it. I'm also DDF with results and would love to try forced bi or strap on play

HMU if you'd be down to chat 🤭


r/SFr4r 2h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Bearded and athletic, new to the city and looking for a FWB

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Hi there, thought I'd try this out instead of the dating app treadmill. I'm 28, athletic, and I like to think attractive. I recently moved back to SF and I'm looking for a FWB I can connect with both in and out of bed. I have my own place and am sane (lol)

In bed I'm on the dominant side and pretty kinky. Giving head is my absolute favorite. I also have a big breeding kink so it'd be awesome if you did too; I test regularly.

Outside of bed, I love to be outdoors, whether it's backpacking, picnics at Dolores, or stargazing at the beach. I also love to cook and bake for all my friends so perhaps you can be my sous chef, expect your tastebuds to be spoiled :)

If any of this interests you, shoot me a message!


r/SFr4r 3h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 30 [M4F] #EastBay- Daddy looking for his little

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I am looking for my little and someone that I can enjoy time with and hang out with. Someone to be there for me and me for them in this crazy world. Open/want to a relationship or something consistent but am okay with something more casual as well.

Me- 5'7”, East Asian, and healthy/lean. I do like working out and exercising although have gained quite a bit after hurting my ankle, But if you like a little dad bod, not going to complain about cutting cardio out. Also if you enjoy exercising that’s a huge plus. Gym buddies!

Some kinks: Daddy daughter, pet play, rope, choking/spanking, light bruising/punishment (spanking, etc.), rough, can also be sweet when needed, would love to incorporate a mommy into the RP (ie we have to sneak around and keep it a secret from mommy, or daddy is pissed at mommy so he goes to you). In general I also have a lactation, degradation (pretty big one actually), CNC and of course other dom/sub scenarios like teacher/student. These are just some of mine, there a more but drawing a blank when writing this.

Also love showing you off, would love for you to wear skimpy outfits (literally found out they’re called tiny tops, basically anything that your parents would not allow) when we go out so I can show you off the everyone and make them all jealous ;) Bonus points if you’re a typical Gen Z that posts tiktok dances in said skimpy outfits, I won’t mind and can even help film. This god very well with big boobs lol. I mean it is spring/summer and bikini is coming up, would not find helping you film tiktoks in those cute cheer uniforms.


r/SFr4r 4h ago

M4F 38 [M4FM] #Peninsula - BWC for Raceplay

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Hello! New to the upper Peninsula area and am looking for an Asian FWBs, or possibly some voyeur couple action.

I find raceplay very erotic, especially WMAF raceplay, but it's kind of a niche kink and difficult to find through more conventional channels (it's taboo and a little embarrassing to talk about...). Hence my post here.

About me: I'm 38, white, broad-chested, and well endowed. I'm a bit nerdy, love reading and hiking. I'm a normal person, just with a particular kink.

DM me with a note about yourself if interested!


r/SFr4r 5h ago

M4A 30 [M4A] #bayarea - in town between 9/10-27 for work and looking to hang out!

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Hey! I am coming into town and will be traveling all over the bay for work. Looking to hang out and maybe go on a fun date or just go get drinks/dinner or absolutely anything you are down for. DM me if you are interested and I can share whatever info you would like!


r/SFr4r 6h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Mountain View - ISO an affair partner

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I'm a 41 year old married guy who stays active, works out regularly, and enjoys good conversation as much as good chemistry. I love exploring new coffee shops, getting out into nature, and reading when I have the time. My bookshelf usually has fiction, philosophy, and the occasional romance. I'm also a fan of romance and thriller movies.

I'm looking for a woman around 30 or older (no upper bound) who understands the dynamic, values discretion and privacy, and ideally has experience navigating something like this before. Clear communication, mutual respect, and boundaries matter to me.

I'm not looking to change anyone's situation or create drama. I'm hoping to find someone who enjoys meaningful conversation, shared experiences, and genuine chemistry while keeping things private.

If that sounds like what you're looking for, send me a message.


r/SFr4r 9h ago

M4F 31 [M4F] #Alameda - Looking For Freaky Women To Have Fun With During My Lunch Break Or After I Get Off Work

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Hey Ladies I’m Anthony . Im black 31 6’2 245lbs working in Alameda. Im tryna be balls deep in some pussy today, either on my lunch break at 12:30 or when I get off work today at 3:30. Im looking for a horny woman who loves to get nasty. Im tryna eat pussy and ass before I start giving deep strokes, shit I need a woman who can match my energy. Im horny af and ready to give away some dick rn so dont hesitate baby im waiting on you.


r/SFr4r 11h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 33 [M4F] #Brentwood - Nothing better than a “plain Jane” woman with a thick mom bod that’s meant to be squeezed like my personal stress ball.

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You know the type (because I hope you see her when you look in a mirror lol): average looking face that doesn’t stand out in a crowd but has a juicy body that jiggles with every step and that’s usually covered up. Heavy mom tits, mom belly, thick thighs, fat ass.

If that sounds like you, then I’d love to chat.


r/SFr4r 11h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 58 [M4M] #Richmond - Discreet Oral Bottom Looking

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Good looking, masc, super fit, clean shaven, smooth body, bubble butt, clean, discreet, ddf (420 cool), neg, friendly guy. Oral bottom looking for masculine, friendly, clean horny guys in the East Bay area. Looking for oral play only for now. Not interested in reciprocation.

In Richmond area. Ok with safe car play or outdoors as I don’t host.

Hit me up and lets chat to see if we are both into it.

Oakland, Berkeley, Albany, Emeryville, El Cerrito, El Sobrante, Richmond, San Pablo, Pinole


r/SFr4r 22h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 29 [M4F] #MountainView - Looking for someone who likes bj's as much as I do

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I am a very horny individual who loves blowjobs. I also love eating pussy and more than willing to eat you out for as long as you want. I am looking for someone who also loves oral sex as much as I do. I can last days on a blowjob, and confident in my skills. I can blow 4 loads and still go for ages. Can’t host unfortunately. I have a tinted car if you don’t mind, I am 6ft Latino overweight with a average dick. I am free after 5:30 everyday, while being free the entire weekend.

If you are a guy interested the only way it would work out is a cross dressing femboy. If that's not you I have to pass.

I have a nsfw picture on my profile to see the average thing I got, it is thick I've been told.

Hope someone good responds!


r/SFr4r 17h ago

M4F 28 [M4F] #Berkeley - Asian looking to cheat and nsa fun

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Disclaimer: I’m attached but I’m looking. If that’s not for you please scroll past. If you are curious, feel free to dm and ask questions. And if you don’t mind great.

I am hoping to find someone in a similar situation to play discreetly. I have many ideas like public play, CarPlay, and just cuddling and hanging out with you.

Physically I’m East Asian and average build and look very wholesome and a bit nerdy. After all I do work in tech and studied stem. Do you feel like a part of life is missing and want to yolo safely? Happy to meet in public guest and build trust and I know it’s not easy but it feels like if I don’t do this now I’ll never be happy.

Some things I love: breast play, maybe something risky, cuddles, making out, raves, eating you out, being dominant

let’s be friends and keep some secrets? Tell me your kinks and see if we are a match! Feel free to say hi regardless because it’s so hard to find people here and I’m happy to just chat if you are slightly interested. Maybe we can chat over coffee or boba.


r/SFr4r 17h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 32 [M4F] #SF - Experienced bull looking for couples and single females

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Hi! I am an experienced bull looking for new/experienced couples along with single females. I travel to the bay area pretty regularly and can host or come over during my trips

About me : I am 32, 5’9, DDF, dom, 3x vaxxed, straight and enjoy kayaking, watching sports, finding treasures at Costco and traveling in my free time.

Looking for chill humans who value mutual respect, consent and discretion. I have a couple of posts on my profile with some of my recent experiences with other hotwifes and single women. Bonus points if you are Asian!

PS: not interested in men looking to sext about their wives


r/SFr4r 18h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 32 [M4F] #sanjose - fit handsome inked Asian

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Ladies! 32M here, recently got out of a toxic relationship. Fit, handsome, mixed Asian. Inked up nothing crazy. 5 11, muscular, respectful. Need to take my mind off some things, would love to play this week. Would love to either give or receive, enjoy both :) really love playing with sensitive breasts

- respond with ur favorite drink and where you’re located
- tell me about yourself!


r/SFr4r 19h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #peninsula - looking for a FWB, want to explore and have lots of fun together!

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Hey there! I’m 25 year old 5’10” 190lbs and go to the gym quite often. Im looking for a female or possibly even a couple to have fun together and be kinky together as well! Would like to meet one another have some drinks and see how the vibe is as well! I’m willing to exchange photos and verify before meeting of course! I look forward to hearing from everyone soon!


r/SFr4r 23h ago

EXPLICIT / RAOBJ, RAOMF 26 [M4A] #Mountain View - risque early morning carplay before work

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Hiii!

To be clear I am a bit picky but I would love to try some more experiences :3

I won't respond if you're not what I'm looking for/don't fit my criteria soz!

I'm straight and in a relationship but I have been a little curious on the thrill of being discreet. I would love someone that's the opposite of me, I am 6'4 athletic, masculine, not hairy, big arms, not too muscular (working on it againnn) the works.

I'm really just wanting someone to wakeup in the morning around 7am hop in my car and you give me a hj, bj, or if you want to ride pls bring a magnum for me hehe

I'd be doing this before work so around 7am so I'd be in my business attire if that does anything for you loool

This would be my FIRST experience with this so be gentle(and cute)


r/SFr4r 20h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 40 [M4F] #SanJose - male seeking female for some naughty fun

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Hello there. Im a 40 year old white male 6 ft tall average build with brown hair.

I am looking to feel that spark again with a woman who is looking for some naughty fun. I love foreplay and giving and recieving oral stimulation.

I would love to find a women who is available during the day on weekdays for one or more meetups a week for some naughty sexual fun that we both need and want.

I work during the week but usually have long breaks during my shift that I can make time for such fun activities.

I'll be honest I've been searching for awhile and it is hard to find someone. I did find someone a few years ago and we had something going for about a year until she moved to the east coast. I would love to find another ongoing thing.

I do like shy and wild women and I tend to be attractive to women who dont find themselves attractive for some reason, I can't resist them.

If this sounds like you let's chat and see where it goes, who knows it could go to the bedroom.


r/SFr4r 20h ago

EXPLICIT / OTHER 45 [M4F] #SanFrancisco - Focused breast play for the extra sensitive

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I'm a big fan of extra sensitive breasts responsive to my touch and tongue. I've admired your curves during this weekend's bra-optional weather, the perkiness of your nipples poking through some barely veiled cloth, and wondered what it might be like to explore your sensitivity in the pursuit of discovering your peak pleasure. A grope, a squeeze, nipples firming up against my fingertip, your body bucking as jolts of pleasure ripple through you. Curious if you could orgasm from breast play alone? We'd have a lot of fun finding out!

I've had some good breast play experiences through Reddit (success stories in profile) and I'm curious if it could happen again. A few themes and scenarios for the breast play curious:

  1. You'd like some semi-public play of a hand grazing your breast over your shirt or slipping below a plunging neck line. A brief, discreet moment in the busy city or while we drive towards our next destination.
  2. You'd like to slow down and explore your pleasure potential and know breast play always amplifies your enjoyment. Your hands naturally wander to your breasts during self pleasure sessions but partnered play feels too eager to move on to other pursuits. You want the slow build, the focused attention, the discovery of your new favorite things guided by an obvious fan of your breasts and their sensitivities.
  3. Quality breast play is a good leading indicator of someone focused on your pleasure and in tune with your desires. You'd like to give yourself over to an experience completely focused on you once someone proves they're worthy of orchestrating your arousal.

I'm 45 years old, single, live alone in the Marina district of SF, and I'm able to host. 6' tall, respectful, sane, and discreet. Capable of carrying on a conversation before and in between breast dives and vocalizing my appreciation of your unique breast features and sensitivity throughout the experience. You might have caught me glancing too long at the outline of your breasts and perky nipples on bra-optional summer days while commuting to my professional job downtown, waiting for good coffee or espresso, or browsing a farmers market.

We might be a good, playful match if you:

  • Have perky, sensitive breasts C cup or smaller. 🍒
  • Would like to slow down and be more present in your arousal as it washes over you.
  • Are somewhere in between 20 and 40 years of age.
  • Are in San Francisco or near enough to make plans.

Let's lounge and enjoy slowly exploring, and fully appreciating, your extra-sensitive breasts. You might be curious about the unmet potential of focused breast play and what's possible with lots of attention from an obvious enthusiast. If you've wished for more breast play as a focus, not just foreplay, I think we'd have a lot of fun.


r/SFr4r 20h ago

M4F 48 [M4F] #SFBay - Make you feel helpless, vulnerable. Use you, CNC play

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Experienced tall athletic hung Dom.

I enjoy to take control, make you feel helpless, exposed, vulnerable, over power you, use you.

48, 6’5”, 200#, 8 inches.

Good with beginners, all limits respected.

Start as slowly as you need, go as far as you want. Nice collection of toys and gear.

Clean, drug and disease free.

Ben