Hello all,
I’ve been desperately wandering around this subreddit for a while. I hardly post anything on Reddit, but this time I felt I needed to explain something and possibly get some weight off my shoulders. Half a year ago I found out I had some sort of tinnitus in my ear, and it caught me off guard to say the least. I am a 22 year old male for your information.
My experience with tinnitus
I have been extremely cautious to my hearing since 2024, making sure not to expose my ears to more than 80dB, and I think I averaged around 65 dB when listening to music (if I have to trust Apple’s built-in dB-meter :P). Approximately half a year ago I started hearing a very soft beep. It was so soft I had to concentrate right before sleeping to be able to hear it. Fast forward 1.5 weeks later and the sound got louder. It got louder again a week later and that’s when I went to the doctor to sort the problem out.
I also told the doctor that the frequency of the sound changes as soon as I open and close my mouth. The doctor found out I had a lot of earwax (I have some sort of earwax problem/condition), and after getting rid of it the sound in my ear suddenly disappeared. However, three days later the sound returned, although very soft again. Now, 4 months later, the noise is still there and it got intensified. My ear is only half full of earwax, so that’s probably not the cause.
What could this mean? I thought tinnitus would appear after exposing the ears to loud noise. I quickly found out the brain is able to block tinnitus making it less noticeable until you become aware of it.
Some essential information:
- Back when I was little my parents used to take me to loud weddings every 5–7 months or so. These places were as loud as concerts - I believe reaching to 100-110 dB for 5/6 hours. To this day, I’m still mad at them for exposing children to that kind of noise without providing basic hearing protection.
- When opening my mouth the frequency of the sound changes. I read somewhere that this is usually not common to happen to people with tinnitus, but I’m not sure.
- I have done a hearing test and the results showed that I have near-perfect hearing. There is no hearing loss.
- I’m not really a concert person but I gave it a go 1.5 weeks ago (I’m still not a concert person, it seems :D). I brought ear protection with me, but ended up just plugging my airpods in (very stupid, I know). I probably got exposed to loud noise, though it never exceeded 100 dB, I think it averaged somewhere around 85-90 dB for 1 hour. That night I did not hear louder tinnitus, but the evening later I suddenly started hearing louder noise than usual (I also had an extremely stressful day, if that’s relevant).
My biggest question
The biggest question I have is: how did this noise start all of a sudden? What are the chances I had tinnitus and my brain was actually blocking the noise all along? Are the stories here about making tinnitus disappear real and does treatment like massaging the jaw or avoiding certain nutrients make it disappear?
I’m currently trying to get some sort of diagnose (going to the GP, doing hearing test, going to an ear doctor). In the meantime I decided to make this post, maybe someone would have something to say. I don’t want to sound even more desperate, but the last two years have been very stressful to me. I genuinely hope this problem of mine is temporary, however I’m ready to accept the truth and make the best out of this situation. Anyone who’s been stuck with tinnitus, mad respect to you, this is not easy at all…
TLDR
TL/DR: I developed a very soft beep in one ear about six months ago, which gradually became louder. A doctor found a lot of earwax, and removing it made the tinnitus disappear temporarily, but it returned three days later. The pitch also changes when I open and close my mouth. My hearing test showed near-perfect hearing, and I’ve generally been very careful with loud sounds. I also had significant noise exposure as a child and recently went to a concert where I was exposed to around 85–90 dB for an hour. I’m wondering what could have caused the tinnitus, whether it could have been present without me noticing it, and whether jaw-related treatment, stress reduction, or other treatments can actually make it disappear.