r/MBTIDating • u/mascprincessa • 22h ago
all types welcome 28 INFJ F4A #Finland #anywhere | looking for a best friend type of connection, hopefully turning romantic eventually.
I’m an optimistic, warm and empathetic person but I’m also not afraid to call out your bs when needed. I’m blunt and honest.
To me life is about enjoying it, expressing yourself authentically, doing what you love and spending it with people you love.
I’m very spiritual. I’m into tarot, dream interpretation, energy stuff, witchcraft, manifestation, shamanism etc. I don’t like hanging out with overly logical people so don’t contact me if you’re very analytical and don’t have a spiritual aspect to you at all.
I love fitness a lot. Mostly weightlifting at the moment. Like if I have a tough workout and I’m out of breath I just love it. Leg days ain’t my favorite tho, they kill me lol. I’m interested in mobility and calisthenics too.
I’m a big sims 4 fan, I love making builds, create whole worlds and of course I love the gameplay aspect of it too <3. It’s so fun and cozy.
I don’t like most mainstream stuff like music or movies. Mostly because they don’t align with my values and they often lack morals. I’m selective and have standards.
I don’t like to curse much and it feels harsh to me. I love hanging out with people who don’t need curse words to express themselves. I love people who are mature like that.
I’m a big feminist and it’s a core value in my life. Women are very close to my heart <3. I’m woman centric in my life too. I mostly learn from women and consume women’s content.
I value people who are into inner work, reflecting on their patterns and inner world. People who know how to soothe their nervous system. Someone psychology oriented, someone who understands the mind-body connection. I love talking about that stuff.
In a partner I value someone who’s genuine, authentic and not wearing masks. Someone warm, empathetic, caring and loving. Being secure in yourself is also very important to me in a partner or a friend. I love when someone can just be themselves with me, that level of security and confidence in someone makes me feel restful and safe around someone. I don’t wanna be around someone very insecure. Insecure meaning someone who’s reactive, turns mean when triggered or is otherwise immature and acting like a manchild.
I also value people who think for themselves and don't put themselves or others in rigid boxes. I don't like men who have a very heteronormative mindset or men who don't know who they are deeply. I like guys who dare to be themselves, whether that's feminine or masculine. I can't stand dudes who are insecure about femininity or mock femininity. I also don't like macho dudes.
Also you gotta be lgbt friendly and overall support all human rights in how you live and behave.
I also don't date people who drink or smoke.
I want to start as friends and I take my time getting to know people. I don’t rush nor am I looking for anything casual or surface level. I also am not interested in someone who isn’t very expressive and expects me to make up the whole conversation. I love a yapper and someone who loves having conversations.
If you wanna get to know me send me your introduction in the dms.