Been a long day and looking to talk with some cool people haha, and hopefully start on the road towards love. Main things are I work for the government and am a gym rat. Happy to give a fuller intro over DMs. Can send photos if you’d like. Love to speak to anyone. Feel free to hmu :)

5’9
27M
Expired Twink lol (trying to transition to twunk :/)
Indian origin living in lisbon
Fairly open minded and open to chat with anyone
Hobbies - Cycling, Cooking, Painting, Robotics and Lego
Let me know if you think we will hit off :)

35 male from Urban England close to Cornwall looking for something long term.

Open to distance (abroad) if it's something we can be consistent with in regards to time zones. I would rather someone come to the UK in the future if we are to get along.

Lived on a farm most of my earlier life with my parents, moved into the city for work in my early 20's and moved back to some farmland I brought about 5 years ago.

Currently in the stage of opening a animal gym, very early stages though. This is where dog-owners/cat-owners for example can bring their pets to a animal playground, just let them off the lead and enjoy in a safe space.

I work from home in my current job which is working in a call centre dealing with animal insurance.

You can kinda guess I am an animal person.

Enjoy chilling out, some travelling, seeing friends and enjoying a good beer at the weekend.

If interested, send me a DM with an introduction of who you are, favourite animal?

Please be 30+. I do not have children, but I have a dog so I guess I could say a furbaby?

Cheers!

If my post is up, I am still looking.

Were you the good kid in school with always got the perfect grades? Perhaps you were also kinda a people pleaser, because you wanted to feel belonged? Tired of being with rude and unkind people and just want to be someone who you can just chat with all night like two parrots?

Did you sometimes feel alone and can't truly connect with normal people? If so, then hit me up girrrrlllll! We can grab some hot chocolate, and talk all night about space, psychological theories and the best cooking methods for mashed potatoes.

I am like 80% golden retriever energy ( will clumsily knock down stuff ) and 20% Hawaiian beach surfer vibes.

I spent a long time finding my ikigai in my work and after I found it ( which I looooove ) , Life has become sooo peaceful and exciting and I just want to share it with someone and go on silly adventures and get the cops annoyed at our dumb antics.

Like whats the point of success and failure, if I cant share it with anyone?? I love long walks, cooking/baking, reading, constantly learning new languages and cultures from the comfort of my sofa, playing the ukulele confidently (badly), going to art shows to practice my French, perfecting my skincare routine and going for the occasional marathon.

Due to growing up in the Middle East , I am like kinda an old school romantic and don't really do the whole one night stand stuff ( I ain't simply a piece of meat ya know ? ) and just looking to hold someone's hand while we explore the world together, motivate each other to build our business empire and finally perfect my cupcake recipe. We can get some manicures, wine and acheeky slice of strawberry cheesecake, while you tell me all about that horrible person from HR. ( I have been told that I have girl boss vibes from my mom. )

I do walk a lot ( like about 10 km ), so if a zombie apocalypse ever comes, you know that your boy can simply power walk away from those fools, while listening to my man Mozart.

Yo my name is Km, I’m a 19 years old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing how it goes from there.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, reading books, Anime, Manga, listening to music, watching football, going to the gym and Movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying accounting, it’s my first year and it’s going well.

• I’m kind, loyal, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, Jojo’s and Death Note.

• I play video games, I mostly play repo, lethal company, Roblox, terraria, Minecraft, red dead 2, GTA 5, etc.

I go out for walks sometimes, I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 3 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs and memes, flirt with each other, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-24, I prefer someone in Ireland but don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested feel free to say your favourite colour or your favourite anime.

M20 | Indore, MP

INFJ guy looking for genuine friendships in Indore/MP. I like books, writing, and human behaviour, and meaningful conversations.

If you’re interested in making a new friend, text..

Hey there! I'm an open-minded & laid-back guy, Fairly introverted but quite sociable and I always love meeting and talking to people.

I’m passionately curious and love trying out new things/hobbies/places. But my main passion is art and photography. Also a big music fan ( I appreciate recommendations! )
Not very nerdy myself, but I love listening to guys nerding out about their hobbies!

I'm a 5'6 chub currently on a fitness journey, doing weight lifting and tbd.

I hope to meet someone who's as curious and open as I am. I also value honesty, communication & empathy.

If you think this matches what you're looking for, Don't hesitate to send me a message.
Have a great day ahead! :)

I’m an optimistic, warm and empathetic person but I’m also not afraid to call out your bs when needed. I’m blunt and honest.

To me life is about enjoying it, expressing yourself authentically, doing what you love and spending it with people you love.

I’m very spiritual. I’m into tarot, dream interpretation, energy stuff, witchcraft, manifestation, shamanism etc. I don’t like hanging out with overly logical people so don’t contact me if you’re very analytical and don’t have a spiritual aspect to you at all.

I love fitness a lot. Mostly weightlifting at the moment. Like if I have a tough workout and I’m out of breath I just love it. Leg days ain’t my favorite tho, they kill me lol. I’m interested in mobility and calisthenics too.

I’m a big sims 4 fan, I love making builds, create whole worlds and of course I love the gameplay aspect of it too <3. It’s so fun and cozy.

I don’t like most mainstream stuff like music or movies. Mostly because they don’t align with my values and they often lack morals. I’m selective and have standards.

I don’t like to curse much and it feels harsh to me. I love hanging out with people who don’t need curse words to express themselves. I love people who are mature like that.

I’m a big feminist and it’s a core value in my life. Women are very close to my heart <3. I’m woman centric in my life too. I mostly learn from women and consume women’s content.

I value people who are into inner work, reflecting on their patterns and inner world. People who know how to soothe their nervous system. Someone psychology oriented, someone who understands the mind-body connection. I love talking about that stuff.

In a partner I value someone who’s genuine, authentic and not wearing masks. Someone warm, empathetic, caring and loving. Being secure in yourself is also very important to me in a partner or a friend. I love when someone can just be themselves with me, that level of security and confidence in someone makes me feel restful and safe around someone. I don’t wanna be around someone very insecure. Insecure meaning someone who’s reactive, turns mean when triggered or is otherwise immature and acting like a manchild.

I also value people who think for themselves and don't put themselves or others in rigid boxes. I don't like men who have a very heteronormative mindset or men who don't know who they are deeply. I like guys who dare to be themselves, whether that's feminine or masculine. I can't stand dudes who are insecure about femininity or mock femininity. I also don't like macho dudes.

Also you gotta be lgbt friendly and overall support all human rights in how you live and behave.

I also don't date people who drink or smoke.

I want to start as friends and I take my time getting to know people. I don’t rush nor am I looking for anything casual or surface level. I also am not interested in someone who isn’t very expressive and expects me to make up the whole conversation. I love a yapper and someone who loves having conversations.

If you wanna get to know me send me your introduction in the dms.

Hey! I’m Late, 20, and a Christian femboy looking to meet a woman for a serious relationship.

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, masculine, and dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends first and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calling, and spending time together.

I’m a big nerd and enjoy Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, Jujutsu Kaisen, and other anime. My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want a relationship that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Masculine/dominant

- Caring and patient

- Affectionate

- Comfortable with a feminine/submissive guy

- Into gaming or nerdy stuff

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, dark-skinned, athletic, and gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

Hey everyone,

I'll be honest right off the bat: I've never actually dated before. I spent most of my recent years head-down in my studies, so navigating this whole scene is pretty new to me. I'm definitely looking for someone who has a bit of patience while I figure things out as we go.

A little about me: I'm 178 cm with black hair and dark chocolate brown eyes and i am INFJ

What keeps me busy:

>Hobbies: Playing chess, reading, cooking, sketching, cycling, and swimming.

>Photography: I love taking photos, mostly focusing on nature, birds, animals, and architecture.

>Reading: Big on self-improvement books—anything that challenges my perspective, makes me introspect, or helps me grow.

>Watchlist: Movies and series in thriller, mystery, psychological, crime, horror, and rom-com genres.

>Music: Pretty eclectic. Good music is good music, regardless of language.

Lifestyle-wise, I don't smoke, drink, or have any major vices. That said, I’m open to trying a good glass of wine one day just to taste it.

Personality-wise, I'm a weird mix of realistic and hopelessly romantic. I can be a bit reserved at first when it comes to opening up about my past—mostly because I like building genuine trust first and making sure we're both actually invested. But once that foundation is there, I'm all in. I don’t hold back on effort, and making sure my partner feels safe, valued, and respected in every way is huge for me.

What I’m looking for:

A genuine connection built on basic essentials: mutual respect, open communication, trust, honesty, and simple kindness.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send a message with a bit about yourself and your current favorite movie or book.

Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~

Helloing!

I'm Cody, and I'm about 6'3, blue eyes, dark brown hair, 250lb that I carry well with a big frame (down from 290 in just a few months, hell yeah), and I'd jokingly call myself your stereotypical average white man by appearance. While I don't hold any personality tests or traits as a rule of absolute, I've found my combination of INFJ 1w2 154, Aries Sun, Gemini Moon, Leo Rising to be so accurate together it honestly scares me but amuses me all the same, so feel free to dig into that for a thorough scaffolding of my person. Now, I'm gonna yap a lot but have no interest in wasting anyone's time, especially yours, so allow me to rip the band-aid off first. If you can see past it to want to see more and don't mind some reading, I already appreciate you.

My Self-Aware Red Flags and What I'm Doing About Them:

• I'm currently in a stage of restructuring my life, and am not living on my own nor driving at the moment. This is a major priority for me and I'm actively pushing myself out of it through promotions at my job and better managing my finances. My intent is to be totally independent early/mid next year without accruing any debts, and if I meet someone before that freedom, I've no desire to pull you physically or financially into my situation. They're my burdens, not your problem to solve.
• I have dental issues that I know can really put people off, but afaik, they're only cosmetic thanks to good hygiene. They're related to childhood trauma and nothing more. My life has simply never allowed me the financial freedom to do something about it. That will begin to change either during or after becoming independent as a non-negotiable for myself for both long term health and confidence.
• For various reasons, I suffer from long-term memory recollection issues. That's not to say I don't remember things. I can recall details of things going back to when I was an infant. But these memories become time capsules after a time, opened only by something directly related to and involving its contents. To many, especially those not entirely safe in their emotions or ability to communicate, this is a deal breaker as it may be frustrating when I don't immediately remember something. I've spent the last few months building habits that help reinforce and train my memory, as well as just being better about writing things down, though I will never be 'normal'.

Still Here? Awesome. Here's Some More About Me:

I'm a very private, closely guarded person to those outside of my heart, avoiding nearly all social media and crowded places. I have little interest in casual small talk, and no interest in maintaining shallow friendships. That's not to say I'm antisocial. I have no problems talking with people, making friends or getting to know someone, and I often find people are drawn to me even if I may not want them to be. But my life needs meaning and depth that has a standard I will only ever apply to myself, making basic relationships difficult to tolerate or reach out, which can put people off. So what does someone like that enjoy?

I'll always identify as a gamer at heart, with different genres claiming different eras of my life. Everything from CoD, to WoW, to Minecraft. I enjoy challenging myself, exploring, and when able, leading. Gaming is taking a bit of a backseat lately though as I focus on myself and having better habits, so here's some other hobbies as well as those I'll gladly explore someday with someone at my side:

• I enjoy writing, primarily with fantasy or sci-fi themes and romantic/erotic plot points that don't subtract from the story. Usually short stories, but I've been developing a book series for the better part of 16 years that I can struggle to really focus on and put on paper.
• I love to read, typically along the same themes as my writing like The Expanse, or ACOTAR for some popular examples, but I'm also into psychology (more on that soon) and very open-minded into other genres. Slowly building myself a personal library as I prefer physical books when able.
• Despite spending most of my time at home or work, I adore being out in nature, and I'm looking forward to travelling around with someone and sightseeing wherever our passion takes us. Crater Lake is a definite bucket list spot, along with Switzerland. Yes, the entire country.
• TV/Movies are always there when you need them, and there isn't much I won't watch, but unless I'm binging a show for the hell of it, I'd rather put my time elsewhere when I'm alone. If you don't like Supernatural, you'll never understand my perfectly acceptable crush on Jensen Ackles as a straight man.
• Music. Music is eternal and necessary, and I listen to so many different forms from groups like Bad Omens or Linkin Park, to KPop, to oldies from the 40s-90s (Thank you GTA, Guitar Hero and Fallout for that). I'd like to build a vinyl collection someday. They're like books to me, but for music. Authentic.
• Fitness and wellbeing. I'm no gym rat nor will I ever be, and this has always been a sporadic part of my life that I'm now trying to really tighten the reins on with a focus for exercising in the comfort of my place or walking in nature. I don't care to have a home gym, but have slowly built a personal toolkit when affordable.
• I'm a solid, albeit amateur cook who likes to experiment when I'm not learning how to bake. Focusing on my health lately has me really wanting to spend more time in the kitchen, and I'm going to get into some food prepping soon! I don't do spicy though. I'm a seasoned white boy from south Florida, but spicy ain't it for me.
• Hobbies I intend to revisit: Drawing, painting, photography, archery, and guitar/music theory.
• Hobbies for the future: Gardening, metalworking/workshopping. I like working with my hands and knowing I made something of worth beyond my own thoughts.

If you got this far and think "Man, this guy is too much.".. Yeah, you're right. I enjoy it that way though, and I don't mind saying what's on my mind in a blunt, honest or thorough fashion. Sometimes people think it's all fake, or that they can handle it, tolerate it, and ultimately burn out, so this is largely to avoid all of the above before it can even be an issue. Regardless, I find true purpose in helping people achieve their goals, improve themselves, make their day a little easier, or simply offering a moment to vent their issues whether they want my thoughts or not. My current line of work doesn't allow for much of that being a retail meat cutter, but it's stable income, and I am very, very good at what I do, so it's security for the foreseeable future and opportunity to move into management, which I am.

But it's not my end goal. I'll stick with it long enough to build my 401k alongside my savings, network myself, and secure a simple but rewarding mid-life, yet I'll also be putting myself back in school to eventually achieve a career swap over to psychotherapy, ideally beginning within the next few years with the goal of being licensed before I'm 45. That will mean a lot of solitude from time to time in an already homebody-styled, quiet life. At least, quiet on the outside looking in. Ultimately, every path I now tread in life will be to lead a simple but very fulfilling life alongside someone to the very end together. I don't need the fancy car, massive house, or rooms full of priceless collectibles. I'd love a small, cozy place that I can walk through and cherish as ours, to be able to see my love in every facet.

So I'm not interested in playing mind games, or half-hearted commitment, and given my current situation, I'm in no rush but still want to put myself out there. I neither smoke nor drink but casually used to, and I'm very much leaning into not having children with the state of the world as a politically far left leaning, spiritually agnostic realist. However, if the red strands of fate have other plans there, I'm not one to shirk responsibility and love, nor do I even view the choice as mine, but that of my love. My choice is not to try for it beforehand. My labor of love is to support and serve either way. And I do live to serve (mostly), so I'll move onto who I'm really looking for.

Home Is Where The Heart Is, and She Has a Name.

These last years of my life have taught me many things, but above all else, it's that I need someone to love, to give my all. I can live in loneliness, but to feel alive, someone must hold my heart, and I need to know how they feel about it. I'm hoping to find someone that not only shares in my dreams and shares their own with me, possibly most of my hobbies, but also someone who loves making people feel seen and understood. Someone who understands their emotions alongside their thoughts, is open to talking honestly and with kindness, and prefers meaningful conversations over office water cooler chatter, plus solving arguments with comfort and teamwork instead of malicious spatter. I value praise and warmth over toxic controlling behaviors.

We're all human, and people make mistakes. With every mistake, I find a lesson, and I don't need someone to remind me of the problem, but rather to put their hands in mine and figure out what's best for us or to sit beside me while I figure my own issues out while not being afraid to tell me they may need a little space for their own frustrations. Being a massively affectionate, intimate person in every way when I love someone, I'm looking for transparency and constant communication in our relationship, whether vocal or physical. You're not simply my best friend in this life, or a beautiful soul, but also my innermost peace and purpose.

I need someone who understands that while I can't give them the world around us, I would do anything to make one of our own together even just to see them smile at me every morning. While I'd prefer someone who has their own independence, their own goals and hobbies they like to do on their own time, they would capture my focus the moment they walk in the room. Therein lies my desire to share in their passions and joy, to hold them through darker days, and to make sure they lay beside me every night knowing what it is to be content, relaxed, happy. I'm just a Gosling looking for my McAdams, though everyone has boundaries, needs respect, and everything I'm looking for is a two-way street.

I'm never going to ask you to do something I wouldn't, do something that I know would make you uncomfortable without your consent, or try to change you as a person. Those are promises that need to be not only mutual, but part of you, and part of us for someone to mesh deeply with me. Someone that checks all of those boxes will find that I have a hunger to see them reach highs they didn't know they could, to succeed in being their best self. No matter my own stress or time, a day won't go by without them knowing they're loved, admired, and appreciated. If you've made it this far thinking it could be you, please don't underestimate that last bit. Wherever you think that bar is in your head, I will raise it, because that's who I am. My soul will ache to nurture and pursue yours.

Some Important Extras That Don't Need Novels:

I'm not opposed to LDR, but unlikely to leave my locale for familial, professional and medical reasons.

I have two cats that I adopted. Both neutered, usually-behaved males. I will meow at them.

I've been diagnosed with ADHD, and while I'm medicated and going to therapy, I don't want this to define my person or my life. It can always be worse.

I'm not a materialistic person, but lean into the interests of my love whenever possible. That, with everything else I've said, essentially makes me a build-a-bear, golden retriever simp and I'm proud of it. You'll know without a single doubt that I'm your biggest fan.

I don't have OCD (that I know of) but enjoy being organized and clean. Don't let that make you believe I couldn't love you on the messy days or think that I won't have some of my own.

I habitually dress casual or office casual, and don't have a single tattoo or piercing, yet I enjoy seeing different aesthetics and trying new things. A canvas waiting for his painter. Wanna play dress up? Remember the two-way street. Call it reverse strip poker.. after playing actual strip poker.

Physically speaking, I don't have a specific type in women. Short, tall. Skinny, chubby. Skin color, hair color. I fall in love with the soul and heart before the body. I genuinely believe most women are beautiful, largely due to a fixated admiration on the female form as an everchanging temple of art. Even considered being a nude photographer once, but influencer culture is a plague I prefer to stay vaccinated for. It's the spirit that makes someone ugly. Still, I have the caveat of wanting to reinforce a casually healthy lifestyle, so I'm not looking to introduce someone who may be stuck in their bad habits into my life, because habits are contagious when around them enough (Okay, this one needed a small novel. A postcard. Oops.)

Age wise, I'm unbothered by decent age gaps as long as we have mutual ground to relate to each other on, which I've given quite a bit to be taken in here. Being closer in age would feel naturally comfortable though, as I'm in it for the long ride through life when I find my person.

You're Still Here??? You're either patient or stubborn, and I'm both.

Teasing aside, if you really did read through all of that and can imagine building and sharing a future together, I would love to hear from you. Tell me a bit about yourself, what you're up to that has your attention lately. We have plenty of time.

Edit: Fixed a typo, but also see a lot of "This is AI" concern from people in other posts. Not here. I'll genuinely send you a novel of thought for the hell of it. You'll never question exactly what's on my mind. <3

I care a lot about my self-respect. I prioritize openness and honesty to an extent that's unusual. I've spent a lot of time thinking about human nature to try to figure out why people are the way they are. This has caused me to become increasingly more self-aware and incompatible with most people over time. I specifically think most people are too socialized and tend to allow their emotions to delude them instead of choosing to think critically. I would like to find a partner that shares these understandings and feels the same way about them. I'm an INTJ. I have noticed that I get along best with INTJs, INTPs, shizoids, and autistic people. I can't understand most people due to the disorganized way they think and communicate. I prefer talking to people that choose to communicate clearly due to a desire to communicate effectively rather than due to caring about coming across as intelligent. I'm very intense and pedantic and that annoys most people a lot and makes talking to me exhausting from most people's perspectives. I know I can't connect with people that haven't spent a lot of time thinking about existential stuff and that aren't pedantic, so I try to determine that early in the conversation.

I want my next romantic relationship to be my last one. I would want to remain friends with a potential romantic interest for a long time before deciding that we're right for each other.

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20M mix of INTJ & INFJ here

i've never really been the love at first sight type tbh, i'm more of a friends to lovers believer. i like actually knowing someone first, getting comfortable, sharing random songs, having stupid conversations that somehow become deep, and just slowly figuring each other out.

my interests are kinda all over the place lol... psychology, AI/tech, mythology, spirituality, symbolism, astrology, tarot, weird mysteries, pattern stuff, music and a bunch of other random rabbit holes 😭

i obviously cant list everything here without making this look like i asked chatgpt to write my personality 🫠 so if you're actually curious, ask me. i'll probably have something weirdly specific to say about it.

as for the actual point of this post, i'd rather just interact and see if we vibe. if we do, we can slowly see where it goes. if we dont, no awkward forced ending, we can just be honest about it... and if we genuinely enjoy talking, there's nothing wrong with staying friends either.

i dont believe every connection has to become romantic to be meaningful.

so yeah, tell me something random about you and i'll tell you something random about me :)

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I like to think my personality is built on two main pillars: a deep seated curiosity and a reliable sense of humor. I love to laugh and find the lighthearted side of things, but I also know that not every moment calls for a joke. My curiosity means I'm genuinely interested in the "why" and "how" behind people and the world, so you can expect me to be the one asking plenty of questions. What else have you discovered about me? Well, I guess you'll just have to chat with me to find out !

When I'm not busy being curious, you can find me:

· Chasing calm: Looking up at the sky, admiring a full moon, or just spending quiet time in nature.

· Diving into entertainment: Getting lost in endless YouTube rabbit holes, feeling the beat of EDM and pop music, or getting hooked on the drama of a wrestling match.

· Getting lost in stories: I'm usually buried in a nonfiction book or a gripping thriller. The world of romance novels is still a mystery to me so feel free to send your best recommendations my way!

My list of interests is pretty wide! from the mysteries of the paranormal and history, to the intricacies of watches and psychology, and the mechanics of cars. But don't let that list intimidate you! While I love deep-diving into specific topics, most of my conversations end up being about life in general...the big, small, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find someone who engages genuinely, who is as interested in getting to know me as I am in getting to know them. I value consistency and someone who wants to build a real, lasting relationship. And honestly? A little bit of a clingy partner in crime is a total bonus in my book.

If this sounds like a connection you'd like to explore, my DMs are open. I'm looking forward to our first real conversation.

I've been working remotely and traveling for the last year and the experience is incredibly lonely.

I want to find someone who i could travel and live a slow mindful life together with. This is a shot in the dark but im willing to keep trying my luck.

About me: I'm a software engineer and founder, working online remotely. 6'4 (195cm) caucasian gym rat. My biggest values are kindness, compassion, mindfulness, purpose and hope. I have a big heart and i love very strongly. I'm in love with the work im doing and as a result i end up working a lot. My mission in life is probably as important to me as having a good relationship. I value good communication and I'm always looking to improve my communication and myself in general.

I wish to find someone who wouldn't mind traveling with me around the world. I'm an easygoing person but i dont like to party / go out too much, im looking for someone who'd be okay with that.

I always wished for a partner-in-crime type person with whom i could travel around the world and build my life with.

I love reading a lot and exploring outdoors,meeting new people and new places and i am an easy person to talk about anything as i dont judge.If your looking for something steady my DM's are open for you.

Intj seem to be what interest me the most... but if u can have a conversation and you're not afraid of actually building a meaningful connection drop a line.

Need to have some deep conversation to keep my attention but if u get it its yours.

I need someone I just click with to the point that we're both a little freaked out that wont decide the risk of getting hurt outweigh the potential.

I'm self employed. I do have a 5 yo and will most likely have full custody this year. If I'm reading or doing research I may be immersed and not respond immediately but if u get me talking I might not stop. If you think my age may be an issue I assure you I have the energy of a much younger man.

Lets break the idiocracy prophecy together! 😆 🤣 😂 I'll keep em occupied so u can have ur time and I get to be playful and social.

Hell I'd just be okay with someone to bounce thoughts off of. Hmu

It’s weird to write a list of what my potential partner should be ( I ain’t buying a washing machine, lmao ), sooooo I am just gonna write who I am, and if you are the same , then do reach out ! ( I have plenty of snacks! ) :

• Grew up as the quiet kid who did well in school, played badminton at the national level, debating and won the best student award which was featured in the newspapers. 
• The good kid who always helped clean up the kitchen, make tea, help with the chores and is loved by Grandma’s for how polite and respectful I am.
• Went through a period of self-reflection and depression and anxiety , sooooo am now in my “ life is too short and I am just gonna be a happy golden retriever” phase.
• My idea of conflict resolution is we both take a shower, go for a long walk and then calmly discuss it over a cheesecake ( or ten cheesecakes if it’s a major issue )
• Grew up in the Middle East, came to India to help my parents set up an ice cream shop and planning to move out again.
• Don’t have any social media or watch a lot of movies, tbh. I usually read books that are at least 100 years old and try to absorb the best parts from every culture : I decorate Christmas trees, ( try ) to fast during Ramadan, and visit temples early in the morning for some peace before the crowds. 
• I am mostly an introvert but can get really energetic and can be the extroverted life of the party with the right crowd. 
• I enjoy working out , playing sports, going for long walks, and always wanted to learn tango. 
• I looveee cooking and would love to have a weekly theme where each week we pick a new country to cook food from ( one week Japanese, the next week Brazilian … we can also only speak and watch movies in that language to really immerse ourselves )
• I have slept on railway benches as well as in the Swiss Alps. I know how to lead a boardroom, as well as get my hands dirty in farming banana trees.
• I work for an international non-profit helping entrepreneurs, but I plan to start my own business soon. 
• Never had a relationship earlier because I wanted to find peace and happiness on my own terms before sharing it with someone else.
• While I love to try out a new activity every weekend ( my last few weekends consisted of pottery, wall climbing , going to art museums , getting Starbucks certificates), My favourite one is having outdoor BBQs where I will control the fire and grilling, you be the classy host making sure all of our guests are having a great time, while our pet dog would try to steal a piece of chicken off the table lol

trying my luck to see if there are any gay ENFP’s out there. ideally same age range but i don’t care lol
im a gigantic cinephile (bonus if you have letterboxd lol)
avid reader (it’s actually an addiction :/)
luv to run, swim, trek, hike, boulder (basically anything physical which hurts :/)
physicist by trade but in luv with theology n philosophy
(yes im a geek ☹️)
i have been described as quirky n eccentric n vanilla at the same time (sorta like schrodingers personality)
i have lots of tattoos (i mean at least two 😟)
hmu if you’re interested

Heyy~

So I’m looking for a serious relationship that will have a solid friendship as the foundation. I’m looking for my type of people, people on the same wavelength with the same values and interests. If something deep comes out of it, great that’s my biggest wish. But if it’s friendship that’s great too. However I’m not open to surface level friendships or if you’re here to cure your boredom. I’m looking for a person who doesn’t want anything from me but everything with me, you feel me? Someone who’s looking for genuine healthy connection. Us enjoying life together.

I don't care if you're a woman, non-binary or a guy. I'm interested in who you are as a person, not your gender.

I just want a warm home, peace, being held by my best friend and love of my life, go on adventures or restaurants together and enjoy life. I wanna have career goals together that are rooted in something soulful and purposeful. We build something from the heart. We have fun even when we just go to the grocery store together, bantering and bickering with a smile like best friends. I know the person is right for me when I just enjoy who they are. My day is lovely just because they’re there. I also know the person is right for me when I respect and admire their character.

I love people who are warm, genuine, have integrity and they behave respectfully, even when angry. I’m looking for someone who feels safe to my nervous system and who I breath easy around. A person with a big heart and a kind heart. But also someone who can disagree with me and hold their own in a conversation. I’m looking for someone who’s secure in themselves and they know who they are and what they want. A self aware and emotionally mature person who has done the inner work and gone deep within themselves. I’m a very deep person, for one because I’ve done that journey myself but also cause it’s just who I am. So I’m looking for someone who is on the same wavelength like that. I love a person who has a grounded, still and present vibe to them. They don’t need to prove anything, no need to defend anything. They’re just themselves.

I have a few non-negotiables that are a must for us to be compatible.

1. you don’t drink or smoke and never want to. You want to live a substance free life. That’s a value we both share.
2. You don’t like sexist music/media with all the b-words and mf type stuff. You avoid that. You’re also 100% a feminist. Another value we both share.
3. you’re spiritual and not overly logical. You’re into tarot, manifestation, witchy things, shamanism, paganism. Things like that
4. you’re child free and don’t want kids.
5. you speak English or Finnish natively or close to native. I don’t like a language barrier.

About myself:

I'm 28, from Finland, bilingual (English and Finnish), I’m a masculine presenting woman with mostly masculine energy. It’s a innate thing for me and who I’ve always been. I love to wear casual but stylish streetwear, I love cologne, jewelry, I like being called handsome rather than pretty.

I’m in uni studying art studies, aesthetics are my major.

Things I’m passionate about are fitness(strength training specifically my god I love it), spirituality and I love sims 4. I love cooking delicious and healthy meals, it’s a fun hobby for me. Plus nutrition is important to me. I wanna try calisthenics in the future and I also care about mobility cause I wanna stay healthy as I age.

I love tarot and doing readings, I’m psychic in different ways so I sense stuff etc. I tend to follow my inner wisdom and that unseen guidance that doesn’t always speak in words.

Personality wise I’m calm, warm yet blunt and fiery. I’m very honest as well but not an asshole about it. Although some people think I’m an asshole because they can’t handle the truth I just put in front of them. So I’m really looking for a person who’s not afraid of honesty or looking at themselves honestly.

In a relationship I’m very affectionate and clingy, not in a toxic way lol but I love to be cuddly. I’m quite softly dominant as well in every day life like the way I hold my partner or casually touch them. I love to hold my partner on my lap or have them lay on my chest. I like to buy my partner flowers or something small and special sometimes if they like that. I love receiving all of that back as well.

I love a relationship where we don’t have some stupid roles inherited by society. We are just ourselves. I cannot stand heteronormative bullshit.

Genuinely any man reading this who has a very narrow mindset about gender and expression can leave. Or if you project ideas of femininity onto me or expect me to behave a certain way, you can also leave. I’m not into cis het dudes who have no understanding of diversity, gender expression or just people being individuals. It’s a huge turn off for me when someone believes in gender roles or thinks these roles are some inherent thing. It’s a social construct and I love people who get that and don’t force themselves or others into it. That’s why I prefer queer men if I date men honestly. They just get things better and have a better understanding of things.

Looks wise well, bluntly speaking I like masculine looking people regardless of gender. People who are slim and muscular and have tats, wear chains and streetwear. I dunno is streetwear the right word but you know that casual stylish stuff. That’s my type usually. But then I also love people who are not strong and are just cute and small. Not looks related but I love guys who have a feminine side to them like energy wise or personality. Of course we all see feminine and masculine differently so that’s a bit ambiguous to say but I think the right person gets it.

I find short guys more attractive but doesn’t really matter. I’m not dating your height, I’m dating you lol. Never understood the obsession over height. As if that shows me if you’re a person of good character. “M25, 182cm” does nothing for me fellas.

Also no anime fans or big gamers, not my type.

but anywho, so if you’re interested and want to genuinely get to know me, send me a dm:)

31 [M4F] #California #BayArea Single INTJ Looking For a Relationship

Hello and welcome to my post. I'm an INTJ California bay area native and have lived here my whole life. I'm currently working as an office management assistant and enjoy it very much. In my free time I like to walk my dogs, play videos, hang out with friends, and help my family. I also like to collect things as well, I have a huge video game/ t-show/ movie collectible collection. It's a big hobby of mine, and I love to buy, trade, and sell things for my collection.

Thanks for reading my post, if you have any questions and want to talk let me know, i'm open to meeting new people.

“Are you a Jedi? because Yoda one for me.”

Hey

I'm 1.87 m (6'2") and probably best described as the quiet guy with a big heart.

I'm a little shy when meeting new people, but once I'm comfortable, I love joking around, laughing, and being spontaneous. If you're into MBTI, I'm an INFJ—thoughtful, empathetic, and the kind of person who values deep conversations over small talk.

When I'm not working, you'll usually find me cooking or baking, reading fantasy novels, watching anime, gaming, or enjoying nature. I'm just as happy spending a cozy evening at home as I am going to a concert or taking a day trip somewhere.

I'm looking for a genuine connection rather than someone who's "perfect."

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, honest, and enjoys long conversations about anything and everything.

If you appreciate good food and don't mind the possibility of being bribed with homemade cake at some point, we'll probably get along.

A little more about me:

🇨🇭 From Switzerland

🌍 Looking to meet someone from Switzerland or Europe, as I'd like the distance to be realistic.

📚 Fantasy, anime & gaming fan

🍳 Love cooking and baking

🌿 Enjoy nature and quiet moments

❤️ Looking for a long-term relationship

One small request: I'd much rather receive a message that tells me something about you or asks a genuine question than just "hey", "hi", or "wyd".

It makes starting a conversation so much more fun—and gives us something to talk about from the beginning.

If any of this sounds interesting, feel free to send me a message.

I'd love to get to know you.