r/Libraries • u/UNobserver2 • 5h ago
Staffing/Employment Issues Being treated like a child by a coworker; waiting for heart rate to lower
So I work in an incredibly petty library. The library I am in most days is one of five libraries in an affluent city system.
Today a circulation staffer complained that "someone" placed a bookend on a shelf. She doesn't like it there so it's wrong of anyone else to place it there. I spoke up and said I put it there to make it easier to reach the books.
Now, in other libraries I have worked in, which is several, a staffer would just remove the bookend and move on. In our library, which is famous in system for its crappy culture, she has to make a big deal and lecture me at every opportunity. I'm a senior librarian with another very patr-time job in an academic library. You know how people complain about the politics in academic libraries? Well, at least the disputes are about ideas instead of just trying to control where people place bookends.
I am so tempted to quit. It's been a rough few years here and if I had not had to take out a loan to make home repairs required by our insurer (California!), I'd have been out of this crappy atmosphere already. AND our supervisor has zero spine. Sick of it, and thanks for listening.
How do you all handle it when you just feel like you've reached your limit and you'd like to walk out?