r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 2d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 7h ago

17FšŸ‡ÆšŸ‡µ Looking for friends šŸ’–

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Hiii!! I’m 17 years old (I’ll be 18 on November) and looking for nice friends who can teach me EnglishšŸ¤ I’ve been learning English for a long time, but I’m still bad at it ;-; I like video games, anime, astronomy, and Disney movies! Please don’t send me NSFW things (I’ll get scared)🄲 I'd love it if you sent me a DM✨


r/Needafriend 2h ago

19F HEY

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Hi guys, cannot believe I’m posting here fr. I moved out with my boyfriend to a different country. Ngl I’m so sad and lonely lol, my friends are far away from me, I have no one, but him and he got his friends😤, so I’m jealouse. Anyway, I like to workout, cook healthy meals, skincare and techno!!! PLEASE no weird people. I’m just looking for a girl to gossip with.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

31F Swedish looking for a friend to talk to

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🌸 Looking for a preferably long term friendship 🩷

Hej! I’m autistic/ADHD, so my energy is VERY inconsistent šŸ˜‚ Sometimes I’m hyper and talkative, other times I’m slow and quiet. I might write you a whole book one day and reply with one word the next. I’m pretty straightforward, but also love
cute things, so good luck figuring me out šŸ§øšŸ˜‚

I’m trying to
Get over my ex, so I’d love someone I can talk to about it without being judged.
I’m not really a gamer, but I play Hogwarts Legacy, Life is Strange, Firewatch, Edith Finch, Phasmophobia and Minecraft (I suck at Minecraft ngl).
I love nature, animals, walks and coffee ā˜•šŸŒæ
feel free to message me


r/Needafriend 5h ago

F 25 / London

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Hey I am 25 f and I don’t really have any friends in real life because of my mental health issues. I have a very supporting family but sometimes you need to talk to people outside that circle, so I thought I would make a post here. If you wanna chat, just hmu. I won’t go into my hobbies or personality here, because I think it’s best shared through messages.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

20F from India looking for online friends to chat with

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r/Needafriend 2h ago

Anyone upp for chat its my birthday

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It's my birthday today lol. Just wrapped up with the celebration and realised that I don't really have that someone special.

Though, it's not that I don't have people. But it's just a void which yk hits really hard.

Anyways, would love to talk. Maybe I find some new friends


r/Needafriend 2h ago

24F looking for a clingy bestie šŸ’•

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Hi there ✨

These days I’ve been craving new friendships I can talk to on a daily basis and never run out of things to say. I really like VCing but I rather build up to it as I feel a bit shy at first.

I’m a yapper so I’m looking for someone who’s also very talkative and doesn’t expect me to carry the conversation. šŸ˜…

Some of my likes are movies (especially horror ones), series (GOT and AHS are some of my favorites), true crime, psychology, books and music. I’m not really that much into gaming or anime, I play mobile ones like Pokemon Go or Brawl Stars and really like The Sims 4 but other than that I wouldn’t consider myself a gamer.

I’d prefer someone who shares some of the same interests as me and isn’t dry. Also hopefully 21+ as I feel more comfortable talking to people who are closer to my age. I have a bf so any attempts at flirting will be shut down.

If you’re gonna send a message, include an introduction rather than simply saying ā€œheyā€ or ā€œhiā€, I’m not replying to those as they feel very low effort. If you don’t know what to say a simple fun fact will do. :)


r/Needafriend 4h ago

Will you be the petrichor in my hell..?

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I'm drowning in the quiet and I don't want to come back to life... I've got no friends, no life... I've got a toxic family, I don't talk to them.... I'm weird, I know right... It's hard for me to maintain connections with people, but I'd like to try....


r/Needafriend 20m ago

22 M here looking forward to make new friendss :)

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r/Needafriend 35m ago

Bored

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Im really bored rn pls text me, dont be dry or weird :)


r/Needafriend 4h ago

Looking for a real connection and someone to share thoughts with

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Body:
Hey there! I’m 26F from Nepal. Life gets a bit overwhelming at times, and I’m looking for a solid friend to connect with. I enjoy open, honest chats—whether it’s talking about how our day actually went, deep life thoughts, or just sharing lightweight moments.
I’m open to chatting with anyone who is respectful, genuine, and values building a real online friendship. Send me a chat request or comment below if you'd like to talk!


r/Needafriend 1h ago

Looking for friends to talk to (:

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26F
Married with kids
I love connection, getting to know people & friendship!


r/Needafriend 1h ago

My one and only best friend died last week

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I never have been the type to have friends. I find my self socially awkward and hard to find things to conversate about in the beginning.

My bf of 5 years died last week with hepatitis C. His illness was too far gone and he had liver and kidney failure. He ended up dieing due to a surgery becuase his small intestines started dieing. They did surgery 3 times before his body was no longer able to heal and he wouldnt wake up without max dose of blood presure medication.

I came here to see if anyone can relate to my circumstance? I could really use a friend to talk through this time.


r/Needafriend 6h ago

F20 Really need a nice friend tonight <3

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Feeling really lonely tonight. Life feels so boring even after watching The Office, going out for a jog, listening to music, studying and I am trying so hard for this to not be like one of those days I have sometimes. Where I try not to cry and try not to blame myself for not a girl that guys like. I know I am not supposed to think this way, but not having any experience at all (like, zilch) makes me feel like something is wrong with me. I know what you will say: a) tale as old as time, b) love yourself and you will find someone, c) you are probably "chasing" it or d) I am too young. I am aware. Perhaps all these things are true. But I feel lonely for other reasons too. My best friend cut off from me because she said I was "no fun" because I did not support her ignoring me and going out with a guy I suspect is dangerous. I didn't think our friendship was that weak. And I don't have any other person I can really trust to hold my feelings without judgement. Even my mom weaponizes all the things I told her in confidence, against me, when she is mad. I really feel so, so alone and unwanted :(


r/Needafriend 4h ago

F19 - dip your salted french fries in iced coffee and tell me I'm wrong

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okay hear me out because my roommate thinks I’ve totally lost it. crisp hot salty fries dipped into a cold sweet vanilla iced coffee is literally elite. the sweet and salty combo just works. don't judge until you try it ok 😭

anyway sitting in my kitchen eating this at midnight while my laundry sits in the dryer. hit me up with your weirdest food combinations, I need to know I'm not the only one.


r/Needafriend 11h ago

48F 🌺 | Looking for a genuine friendship šŸ’•

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Life can get busy, and sometimes you realize you just want someone new to connect with someone who appreciates good conversations, positive energy, and a little sweetness. 🌷

If you’re also looking for a genuine friendship and think we might get along, feel free to say hello. šŸ’–

A little about me: Sweet , caring ,affectionate,great listener,love ,meaningful ,conversations, always happy to make someone smile 🌺


r/Needafriend 3h ago

F 31, India

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r/Needafriend 6m ago

18F from France in US for school looking to meet people

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Hi. As title says. I’m currently in school here for political science and foreign policy so I would like to meet new people and make connections. I enjoy nature, being outside. I like football (soccer) And I used to play before. I like foods, writing, music, arts poetry and games. I would consider myself an introvert but I like to go out of my comfort zone occasionally. I also like learning new things too. Feel free to message me and I would enjoy reading about yourself as well. It would be nice to meet others from here too


r/Needafriend 12m ago

22F, Brazil - looking for some real friendship and people to talk!

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I like talking about a lot of things. The last feel years I've been feeling lonely bc people are so superficial.

I usually have deep conversations, I can't avoid questioning everything and loving life. šŸ¦‹šŸŒ¹šŸŒˆāœØšŸŽ¶

I'm a singer and composer btw <3


r/Needafriend 4h ago

18m looking for friends or someone to chat with

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r/Needafriend 4h ago

37M - Spain (looking for friends to game with or just chat)

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  • My age: born in 1988 (currently 37)
  • Acceptable ages of new friends: Not important
  • Your Timezone: Spain (GMT +2)
  • Typical play time (in your timezone): afternoon-evening until late night (2pm-2am)
  • Genre: Turn-based strategy, looter shooter, survival...
  • Favourite games: Helldivers 2, Borderlands (all the franchise), Gloomhaven, No Man's Sky, Project Zomboid, CIV VI
  • Steam ID: 321160538
  • Discord ID: martinsgarber
  • Language(s): English, Spanish or Catalan

ENGLISH:

Languages and communication are an important part of who I am. I speak Spanish, Catalan, and English, and I’m also interested in learning German. I enjoy interacting with people from different backgrounds and adapting my communication style to the situation.

I have a strong creative side. I write and recite poetry, and I’ve written and published three books of poems, El pĆŗgil de la Nada, En el nombre del hambre, Nuevos versĆ­culos. I also enjoy videogames, music, reading, and travelling.

SPANISH:

Los idiomas y la comunicación son una parte importante de mi identidad. Hablo español, catalÔn e inglés, y también me interesa aprender alemÔn. Disfruto interactuando con personas de diferentes orígenes y adaptando mi estilo de comunicación a cada situación.

Tengo una marcada vena creativa. Escribo y recito poesía, y he escrito y publicado tres libros de poemas: El púgil de la Nada, En el nombre del hambre y Nuevos versículos. También disfruto de los videojuegos, la música, la lectura y los viajes.


r/Needafriend 22m ago

20M, lookin for new frens to talk to

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HEYYAA!!
so i just went through this sub and it looks like everyone's having a great time, figured it’s finally time to step out of my bubble and meet some cool people and get to know them. A little about me: i really love music, gaming, cats, all sorts of media and trying out new cultures and food. im also a polymath and love creating new things for fun. I love people who are expressive, passionate about their hobbies, and don't mind long, random conversations at times lmao. Anyways i hope i can find a new friend here :1
ALSO, im tryna get into reading so if you have any recs lmk <3


r/Needafriend 26m ago

37 enby looking for human interaction

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Moved across the country with one friend at my destination; a few years later I basically friendless. Working and supporting a family so I don't get to spend my money on going out and I'm feeling more and more isolated. Gamer, writer, punk, leftist, musician and general nerd. Anyone welcome but I generally don't associate well with men.