Please have your first message be an actual introduction of you, your age and where you’re from!
My intro:
Being 18 and having the interests i do makes me feel geriatric, ive had no luck finding anyone older or my age that shares the same love for what i enjoy!
I know a ton about the 60’s/70’s, vintage, The Beatles, and 50’s to 60’s/70’s music/fashion. I LOVE The Beatles (especially John Lennon) and i adore anything vintage.
I am also into philosophy, aliens, poetry, the avant -garde, performance art, learning about other peoples life experiences, Superstore, DC and am starting to get into StarWars & Star Trek
I like silly or deep talks whilst teasing insulting jokes with someone who wont take them too seriously.
I dont mind any (adult) age or gender and i mean that, you could be 90 and id still love to chat! Everyone has a story to tell :)
As the title says, I'm a 20-year-old boy from the UK and I like older women. I've loved GTA since I was really young and I'm also a huge Resident Evil fan. I've been playing Dead By Daylight for a while and that's the main game I'm usually on. My favourite superhero is Spider-Man and I'm a really big fan, I also really like Nightwing. I also watch some anime, my favourite is JoJo's Bizarre Adventure
I've been into older girls my entire life and I've always wanted to find love so I thought I would try my luck on here. I would like someone that is good at making conversation and willing to be affectionate and praiseful (I just made that word up). I like clinginess and all the sweet stuff that comes with a relationship, so please don't be afraid to get attached and show off your true personality
In terms of age, I'm mainly looking for someone in at least their late 20s but preferably early-mid 30s, but I'm not extremely strict or specific. I'm 5'5 and about 63kg, I have a slim body, I have big brown eyes, really dark brown curly hair and ethnically I'm Pakistani (though I have been told I look ethnically ambiguous). I give good replies and I am very caring and empathetic at heart. I'll be here for you whenever you need me, so please consider sending me a DM :)
Im Dan. Im 38 years old and work in aeroacoustics research. (I get to blow things up for a living) I like playing games like league, final fantasy, rocket league, and friendship games. Im in the process of programming a game myself as a side project. I have recently got into anime and am always looking for new ones to watch. If you'd would like to talk more and see if we would vibe, I am happy to talk here or on discord.
Hey, they say that internet is supposed to connect people from all over the world. I am curious and would like to find out if there's someone out there who would be my kindred spirit.
please dont DM me if you are just bored or looking for something casual. Im not interested in that. I look for something serious and meaningful. Im very a kind and very emotional intelligent woman and very mature. I dont want to date anyone from Guatemala, thats why i joined this community. Hope you have a good day!
Hello I’m 19 and a Male from Indiana, USA going to college studying criminal justice I plan to apply for the sheriffs office in less then 2 years when I’m bored I watch Indiana professional sports and Notre Dame
Hello dear neighbours in the internet and thanks in advance for your attention!
A little about me:
cis-male gender who’s looking for cis-female gender (sorry guys)
37 years old (soon 38)
lives in Germany somewhere between Cologne and Bonn
single
no children but wants children
a bit of a nerd
overthinker, a bit of a thinker
politically center-left
loves animals, but not enough to be a vegan eater
open-minded and curious about life
sports aren't my hobby, and Hyrox is one of those Pokémon that were created when I stopped following this franchise
I have a job, so I earn my own money and live a manageable life.
Family and friends are just as important to me as relationships. Intimacy and companionship are important, but not the be-all and end-all of life. On the usual dating apps, you'd probably write "No ONS" or "No FWB." I find that too boring a phrase.
My hobbies and interests are life, the love of living, and living with love. What does that mean?
I'd be happy if we could both figure that out together.
Ideally, you're over 30, also want children, or haven't quite finished planning your family, and live in the area I mentioned.
These are just my ideal profiles. We over-30s of any gender probably agree that life is a compromise in many ways.
Now it's your turn. Hi! Who are you?
PS: Try to find a meaningful title for your post. I know this one isn't the best choice.
I suppose this is a bit of a long shot but thought it's worth a try. I'm 28 5'8 broad shoulders. Stocky build , blue eyes and brown hair.
I'm looking to try something long term now. I've gotten to 28 now and I'm looking for my person. Physical attraction is important to me as I do have a preference and type. I'm tired of being on my own coming home on a night with no partner to talk to or throughout the day. Someone to share my day with and me theirs. Someone to occasionally have weekends away with, day trips and adventures to. More so someone to cuddle up to in front of the log burner on the sofa on a night.
I've had suitors but unfortunately some there has not been enough attraction there for us both or unfortunately the other people have had mental health issues or anxiety. I like helping people but I can't build something special and long lasting when people are not willing to meet me half way.
I suppose I should get into my preference I'm looking for. I'm looking for no super model by any means. Someone grounded, humble, funny, flirty and cheeky to match my qualities.
I prefer curvy women, thick or chubby usually I think a size 12 to 18. I just feel more attracted to curvy girls. I'd be lying if I didn't say I prefer brunettes or red heads but its not a deal breaker. Now you'll have to forgive me for this next bit. I like my women with a big rack. I'm sorry I'm a typical bloke 😅. If you're a double HH cup or above. I'm sold x. I am spicy as well but I'm passionate to please don't think I'm objectifying anyway I'm just looking for the best physical attraction fit I'm looking for.
So what do I bring to the table. I'm fiercely loyal, honest, hardworking, funny, charming and empathetic. Very creative as I can make and fashion anything from wood or metal like wood carvings or blacksmiths roses. You could always count on me in any situation to be behind you, by your side and support you whatever the circumstances providing you don't have a tendency of getting in debt 😂. I want to build a life with someone special and to give them my all. I'm a rural rogue but with the biggest heart of gold. If you've read this and it resonates drop me a message I'm looking for my person and to give them the world.
I'm based in east yorkshire but I'm not looking to relocate as I have strong family ties here. If you got the chance to meet my family you'd understand why 😂. You'd probably never want to leave to x
Hope this helps or works. Sorry for waffling on. And hope my post comes across as respectable and charming.
29F |vixxen
I’m looking for someone who starts out as a stranger on the internet and maybe, if we click, becomes something a little more than that. I’m not expecting to jump straight into a relationship—I’d rather let things happen naturally and see where the connection takes us. ♡
I’m shy when I first meet people and definitely prone to overthinking. Once I’m comfortable, though, I can get very attached and affectionate. I have BPD, so I can feel things pretty deeply, and I really value patience, reassurance, honesty, and good communication. I’m not looking for someone to “fix” me—just someone who understands that I can be a little intense when I genuinely care.
I have a definite weakness for confident people who know how to take the lead. Someone sweet but a little bossy, attentive without being overbearing, and capable of making me feel safe enough to relax and be soft around them. I’m shy enough that sometimes I need someone to pull me out of my shell a little. ♡
I love horror, metal, indie music, reading, cozy games, cats, tarot, true crime, strange internet rabbit holes, and anything creepy or morbid. I’ll happily spend hours trading music, talking about completely random things, having late-night conversations, or sending you increasingly unnecessary updates about my day.
Ideally, I’d love for this to become something where we genuinely look forward to talking to each other. Friends first, flirting somewhere along the way, and potentially dating if the chemistry is there. I’m much more interested in finding one person I really click with than collecting random conversations.
So if you’re looking for something that could start anonymously but potentially turn into something real, maybe say hi. ♡ Please be 29+ and tell me your age in your first message. No age = no reply.
Looking for my Player 1. I spend my days conquering video games and finishing my anime watchlist, but behind closed doors, I’m ready for a new surrender of the controller. Outside of the screen, I’m fully independent, but I'm looking to explore a different dynamic in my personal life.
TLDR: Dark featured, confident, technophobe Brit seeks genuine, clever, hopefully curvy inamorata.
For the rest of you high-effort lot:
I'm 33, Dark eyed/haired, confident and strong 5'11. Have lost weight recently and dealing with my new body image but enjoying it. Not going to be skinny, happy to stay broad. I'm independently successful, have been career-focussed but looking to put those efforts into somebody instead of my job now that I'm where I want to be. I'm usually found in a suit, tend to overdress for everything, and wear a lot of jewellery. I'm told I smell great (I put effort into this) and that my stare goes through people.
My hobbies mainly include reading, gardening (ask about my veg patch), watching movies (made myself a cinema at home with a good projector), a little gaming but not too much these days, and studying/listening to music a little obsessively.
I'm looking for somebody 21 and over who's clever, funny, capable of taking a roasting, passionate and high-effort (1-word messages are a turn off). Ideally you're shorter than me, but otherwise I'm open minded on appearance and definitely friendly towards curvier girls. We can swap pics early and make sure the attraction is there. You could be from anywhere, but if you're in the UK I'll be hoping we can meet fairly soon if there's a connection.
Not many deal breakers except don't be too right wing, racist, anti-lgbt, the usual (aren't they a turn off to everyone?).
I don't necessarily expect the love of my life to appear in my Reddit DMs, but let's see who appears and what road we end up walking together.
Hi there! My name is Kevin, and I’m a 34 year old retired lumberjack. Or at least, that is my disguise to hide the fact that I’m actually bigfoot. Tall, big beard, hairy chest and back, long limbs and stride with a well-developed dad bod physique.
In any social group I’m in, I’m the big, gentle giant that you can hear belly laughing from miles away. I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable in a shared space. I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad.
I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!
I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd. I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency.
I work a variety of WFH part-time jobs while dealing with chronic pain from a spinal injury. I write, edit, and do audio censorship. I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man!
I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life!
Looking for Friends & Genuine Connections 📚❤️
I’m 31 and looking to meet some new friends and build genuine connections. I’m not on dating apps, and I’m not trying to force anything. I’d rather start as friends, get to know each other, build a friendship, and see where the connection naturally goes.
I’m a busy person, but I do want to talk and actually get to know people. I mostly prefer texting and sending voice notes, but I’m also open to calls once I’m comfortable. 😊 I might not always respond right away, but that doesn’t mean I’m not interested in talking.
I love deep conversations, random conversations, laughing, talking about life, supporting each other, and being able to be completely genuine. Mental health is important to me too, so I appreciate people who check in, listen without judgment, and understand that some days are harder than others. ❤️
📚 I’m a HUGE bookworm, so if you love to read, that’s definitely bonus points! And if you wanna buy me books… oh yeah, another bonus point 😂😂 I’m kidding! (Mostly 👀)
I’m from San Antonio, so being local is definitely a plus! And if you have a UK, Irish, Scottish, etc. accent, that’s a bonus too 😂 But honestly, none of that matters as much as having a good heart and treating people right.
I’m also on a weight-loss journey, so having a friend who can encourage and support each other would be awesome. We can motivate each other and celebrate the little wins together. 🫶
🚫 Please be respectful. No nudes, sexual messages, or anything inappropriate. I’m here for friendship, genuine conversations, and getting to know people—not that.
Also, yes, I’ve watched enough crime shows to know not to blindly trust strangers on the internet 😂 So we’re taking our time and getting to know each other! Friends first. Genuine conversations. No pressure. Let’s build a real friendship and see where life takes it. ❤️📚
Hey, I'm a dude in his late 20s. I'm on the heavier side but actively losing weight (already lost 50 pounds with my personal trainer). I'm 6'7. Yes, I already know what you're thinking but don't say it or I'll die from the cringe 😭.
I am a studying musician at Riverside City College.
I really enjoy others company whether that be at home vibing or out on the town or even taking hikes.
My music tastes are about as wide and vast as the ocean itself 😂. It'd be easier to just mention what I don't like. I'd have to say I don't really like super vulgar rap and really chaotic edm. Even then, I don't hate them, I more so tolerate them.
I'm looking for someone who is a little on the straight forward side, but still has tact. I know a lot of people say communication is key to a relationship, and I agree. However, I feel something that isn't talked about is that I feel it's important to FEEL heard and to make others feel heard as well. I'm also looking for someone who can accept that we can just disagree on somethings and that we are our own people at the end of the day.
As for my love language? I really like small gestures of affection. Things like offering to help me with stuff, reaching out to me, checking in on me. I also like big gestures of affection as well, but don't be disheartened if I don't always know how to respond.
I'm a pretty big fan of physical touch. I love hugs, cuddling, holding hands. Been told I am very cuddly and am usually the default little spoon.
I am not looking someone with an avoidant attachment type. Ideally I am looking for someone with a secure a secure attachment type, although anxious is fine swell.
Pretty big fan of dark humor, so if I sound like someone you'd be interested in lmk. I'm also open to friendships as well, but primarily looking for a relationship.
Hey! I’m Late, 20, and a Christian femboy looking to meet a woman for a serious relationship.
I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, masculine, and dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.
I’d like to start as friends first and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calling, and spending time together.
I’m a big nerd and enjoy Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, Jujutsu Kaisen, and other anime. My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want a relationship that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.
Looking for:
- 21+
- Christian
- Masculine/dominant
- Caring and patient
- Affectionate
- Comfortable with a feminine/submissive guy
- Into gaming or nerdy stuff
- Looking for something serious
I’m especially into tall, dark-skinned, athletic, and gamer women, but personality matters most.
If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤
