r/AskNYC 6h ago

Just saw a bunch of plainclothes dudes looking like they were abducting a guy in Penn Station while the uniformed police watched from afar, then they carried him into the police station there. Was it ice? Do the police have plainclothes police officers do stuff while uniformed ones watch?

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r/AskNYC 11h ago

Check your Hercules laundry balance

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I was using the Hercules laundry app and my balance suddenly went negative right after I refilled it. I copied and pasted my transactions and refills into a spreadsheet and found out that my balance was $50 lower than expected. I moved to NY in 2021 but I was seeing transactions in 2016, so if I didn't include those, my balance was $100 lower than expected!

Hercules refunded me $28, but I believe the mistaken balance issue is more severe and pervasive than they are willing to admit. I checked with other people in the building and they were also seeing incorrect balances based on their transaction history. Is this just my building or are other people seeing miscalculations? You can log in and copy transactions on their desktop portal here (https://washboard.hercnet.com/tenant).


r/AskNYC 48m ago

NYC Therapy Does anyone have recommendations for CBT-I (insomnia) specialist therapists in NYC?

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Hi, I am an intermittent insomnia sufferer. In the past I've managed my insomnia through a combination of medication and loosely CBT-inspired practices. I'm currently pregnant and having a period of insomnia, and would like to explore CBT-I since I'd like to limit my use of medication as much as possible. Searching online, it seems like there are many, many CBT-I specialists in NYC, but it's hard to know where to start. Has anyone here gotten CBT-I treatment in the city (or virtually), and can recommend a practice based on their own experience?


r/AskNYC 10m ago

I found a turtle, Does anyone want him?

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I found a turtle in my hallway. I posted flyers around the building.

If no one claims him, would anyone want him? I live in Washington Heights.

Or does anyone know what to do with a medium-sized turtle? Should I free him in Central Park?


r/AskNYC 1h ago

Violence Anxiety

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I’ve been living in the city for about 15 years now, since first coming here for school. About 95% of the time, I go about my day without a second thought for my safety, though like most women, I will check behind me when walking anywhere in the dark and generally try to avoid eye contact and stand as far away from the edge of the subway platform as possible. When relatives and out of towners worry for me, I always reassure them that it’s very safe.

With that said, every time a random act of violence occurs, I can’t help but spend the rest of my day spiraling about it. Just this year, 5 deadly attacks occurred in places I frequent (in 2 instances, they took place merely minutes after I left or before I arrived). A few weeks ago, a man started taking photos of me without my permission and followed me, jeering, down the street. A month ago, another man suddenly jumped at me from out of nowhere just to scream in my face. Earlier this summer, a man chased me and my friends for almost 3 city blocks. These instances, while not resulting in any physical harm, have shaken me more than I like to admit.

I love this city and want to live here forever, but in the past couple of years, I’ve been really struggling to feel fully at ease as a small, single woman. Is this something I just either have to come to grips with or leave? Am I inflating the actual risks from just a few data points? I do struggle with anxiety so perhaps this is all just symptomatic of that.


r/AskNYC 40m ago

Is There a Film Photographer Available?

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Hey everyone, I plan on proposing to my girlfriend in Central Park the week of October 5th. Is there anyone available who can shoot film or shoot digital that has edits that look vintage/film vibes? It seriously would only be a 30 minute to 1 hour ordeal. Hardest part would be linking up at the right time for the proposal.

Thank you for the help!


r/AskNYC 6h ago

Getting Entry-Level Restaurant Job

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Hi guys,

I moved to the UES about a month ago. I’m 24 and my professional background is primarily in caregiving for people with special needs (~5 years), but for a variety of reasons, I’m trying to move away from that. I am very interested in breaking into the restaurant industry, but I’m finding it quite difficult with no prior experience or connections. I understand you can’t expect to be a server/bartender right off the bat, but I haven’t been able to land a hostess or barback job either.

I’m really just looking for any advice that might improve my chances. Best areas to look? Best kinds of restaurants? Best way to apply? Etc.

So far, my strategy has been to go to places in my area in person between 2:30-4:30 on weekdays and just ask if they’re hiring hosts or other FOH staff. Usually they are not hiring and if they are, they just tell me to leave a resume and say they’ll pass it along.

Do I just need to keep at it or are there things I can change that might help me? An employee at one of the restaurants I applied to said I’d probably have better luck in mid-September. Should I pause the search until then? I know very little about this stuff and any advice would be greatly appreciated.


r/AskNYC 17m ago

Help need good place for company holiday party

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Hi all, I just got the not so fun task to start looking for places for our holiday party this year. It’ll be like 40-50 people. Where do you recommend?

By the way apparently the person who had my job last year booked bowling and it sucked, so need something unique, I’m not tryna get fired.


r/AskNYC 39m ago

cute areas in queens to explore

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in queens for the next month (staying around new hyde park) and want to explore! what are some places with cute downtowns? looking for areas with fun shops to bop into, thrifting/antiquing recs, etc. recs close to new hyde park also appreciated — feel like everything ive seen is in astoria or lic which is far!


r/AskNYC 45m ago

how to throw out a gas oven

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i got a new oven and took out my old gas oven but how do i throw out the oven now. Its disconnected from the gas and its just in the middle of my kitchen. (Queens)


r/AskNYC 1h ago

nail buffing recommendations

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looking for places that do cheap & good pedicure & manicure, nail buff & shine.
preferably in lower manhattan & downtown brooklyn, thank you 🙏


r/AskNYC 16h ago

Advion cockroach gel bait - I accidentally overapplied by applying in lines, could it cause a roach overactivity in my apartment?

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so german roaches are all over this new apartment (occasional american) and landlord refuses to do something or to believe me

I got this gel bait but I am too scared to open cabinets and apply it inside or behind sinks yet so i applied it below door frames and in some hallways or wall corners, only did a mistake that i applied in thin lump/line (the amount of a pea tho but spread out)

how should i deal with the next couple of days and what should i expect before I’m done with them, will they be more over the place?

(note that this seems to be an apartment building issue that‘s less bad in my apartment and advion is what worked for my neighbor)

ty in advance

edit: how should I know it’s working? I haven’t seen any dead roaches despite people saying the place will be crowded with dead roaches everywhere the next day


r/AskNYC 23h ago

Low cost euthanasia for guinea pigs?

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Anyone know of a vet clinic that does low cost euthanasia for guinea pigs, preferably in/around Brooklyn? My best friend's guinea pig has ovarian cancer and recent developed a bump on her back. She's already had to deal with her other two guinea pigs both passing from old age or illness, and she would want her last one to have a peaceful death. Is there ever an option to keep the body as well? Both of her other guinea pigs are buried upstate, and we would want her last one to rest with her sisters.


r/AskNYC 18h ago

How can I try fishing in NYC?

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I’ve always wanted to try fishing , I’m born and bred in nyc and don’t know anything about fishing, or anyone who fishes. I want to give it a try, but I’m not sure where to go fish, what to buy, or if I need some special permission? I’ve heard of people renting boats and stuff, but I really just want to see if I like this. Can anyone give a beginner some recommendations?


r/AskNYC 16h ago

Where can I buy fantasy football draft kit?

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Does anyone know any stores in New York City that carry the draft kits?

Decided to do an in person draft tomorrow. Don’t have time to ship one.

Planning on trying party city and Barnes and nobles


r/AskNYC 8h ago

ParkNYC overcharging when extending

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I noticed the other day that when I went to extend a existing session by 45 minutes, it wanted to charge me $6.50 but if I started a new session with the same zone, it was $4 for the same amount of time. This is very shady. Anyone else notice this? I was within the 2 hour parking limit for both extensions.


r/AskNYC 1d ago

For anyone who’s been to the U.S. Open, would you recommend the LIRR or 7 train for someone who wants to have a seat?

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I’m going to the U.S. Open this week on Thursday, but I am in my 3rd trimester of pregnancy and don’t have the best energy right now for standing and walking for a long time.

I was hoping to have a seat on the train, so do you think the 7 or LIRR is best? (I’m coming from upper Manhattan but can take either train.)

Also, I’ve read different info online about whether you can bring your food/snacks from home into the venue. Any recent info?

Thanks for any other advice.


r/AskNYC 1d ago

Single, immigrant mom looking for help with divorce (American spouse) — feel like I’m up against a tidal wave.

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35 yo immigrant mother of a toddler (15 month old). Needing legal advice on divorce. Financially dependent on partner who is manipulative and abusive, and I’m struggling to find a way out. Don’t have funds for a lawyer. Husband likely to use coercive and control strategies. Have no family in America and no support system. He’s made it clear he’s going to “break me”. Don’t know how to get out of this mess without him threatening that I lose my child.


r/AskNYC 1d ago

Lloyd’s carrot cake

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Where can I get a slice of Lloyds carrot cake in the Bronx when the actual bakery isn’t open? Are there any deli’s or supermarkets in the Bronx that sell it ?


r/AskNYC 22h ago

uninsured freelancer looking for low cost health clinic recs for ulcer

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Hi there, I don't have insurance at the moment and am dealing with what I think is an ulcer or some sort of upper GI situation. has anyone been through this and could recommend a clinic that offers low cost care? Thanks!


r/AskNYC 6h ago

Best way to get discount or last minute tickets to US Open?

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Just saw some sub $40 and $30 tickets for US open's current session on SeatGeek, but looks like rain and a storm will be coming in this afternoon. Will probably check early tomorrow morning. What other platforms are you guys using for scoring cheaper tickets?


r/AskNYC 4h ago

Parks Dept. is driving around in Ford Mustang Mach E GT’s.

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Are they doing car stops? Or enforcing anything that requires the power?

Why wouldn’t this go directly to the NYPD?


r/AskNYC 1d ago

Ti-84 calculator stopped working

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Does anyone know where I can get my calculator fixed? I've had it for 18 years. I replaced the batteries, and it still does not work.


r/AskNYC 1d ago

Anywhere that accepts broken flatscreen TVs (no fee) in the Bensonhurst area?

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The city mandates that electronic waste like TVs be disposed of in a special manner, but there's only one drop-off zone in Brooklyn (and Brooklyn is HUGE) and it's almost an hour away by car. Best Buy will take it, but only if you pay 30.00 (they wont take it for free if the TV is not their brand, even though they sell TVs from other brands, like Samsung). Who would want to pay 30.00 to drop off a broken TV?


r/AskNYC 1d ago

How do you go about convincing your partner to adapt their suburban creature comforts to apartment life?

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Maybe not a NYC question exactly, but I'm guessing other people have run into this before. My partner is newer to the city and is trying to put the square peg of suburban life into the circle of city life, so to speak. A giant box of holiday decorations that takes up half of one of our two closets, huge weekly grocery shops, multiples of the same kitchen gadgets, 3 suitcases, etc. We are looking for a new place together and she is not liking the places in our budget, mainly due to the lack of storage for things that, if we're being honest, she barely/never uses.

The issue isn't so much what the solution is (have less stuff, be cognizant of what you're buying, and get a few groceries on the way home from the train), it's more how do I help her adapt without it just coming off like me saying "you ain't in Kansas anymore toots, lose the crap." I grew up in the suburbs too, none of what she has/does would be crazy in a regular house. It's just not going to work in any apartment that we can afford.

We both love living in the city, I don't think the answer is to move to the suburbs. We just need a bit of a come to jesus moment about how we do some things differently in NYC.

Has anyone else been in my shoes?