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I think we need to stop meowing 🥲

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https://www.reddit.com/r/gay/s/vE4T8b46dh

So to keep it short i (18f, lesbian) met this girl (18f, bi) like a week ago at an event from our university and i asked for her number cuz i thought she was cute. I should've clarified my intentions at the beginning as now im unsure if she just wants to be friends or what. Which i would be fine with, but i just wanna know. But maybe lets not ask that right now. So anyhow we hung out the day after we met at her dorm and baked brownies together which was fun but the next day she never texted me. So i texted her eventually but she was very dry so i kinda just gave up. Well anyhow last night i texted her "meow" (idk why okay 😭😭) and she replied this morning with "meow" as well. Idk what to say now 😔 helpy

Got married to the love of my life this weekend, had to do it in California cause, well, Texas. Always remember - never give up hope, and always fight with love.

I've (33m) been having such a hard time finding a boyfriend, and atp I'm not sure if its me or the pool of guys that I'm in. I live in NYC, which I know sounds like a gay paradise for a lot of us, but it really depends on who you are and what you're looking for imo. I moved here about 3 years ago, and have gone on ~4-5 dates with only one of those turning into a semi-serious 3 month relationship which ended relatively abruptly.

To be honest, the men here just aren't really my type. I know that this comment may offend some people, but I'm genuinely not attracted to feminine gays at all. There is nothing wrong with feminine guys, and everyone is entitled to be who they want to be, but I'm just not attracted to them sexually. I grew up in the south, often going muddin, camping, and doing wrestling/football with my cousins and friends. The kind of guy that I'm looking for is someone that I could do all of those things with, but all of the guys up here are more interested in doing the gym (just for aesthetics, which is fine), tennis, or things like that. I'm looking for other rugged-type men, which is apparently difficult to find in the gay community up here.

I've tried dating apps like Hinge, Tinder, and Grindr (not really a dating app, I know), but everyone on those seems to be looking for a hookup or loses interest after only 1-2 days of talking. Some of my gay friends who have been here for years have been able to find boyfriends seemingly with ease, and I just don't know how. I try going out, but never really find anyone that I'm really interested in. I moved up here originally for work and have a really great job, a great apartment, and really cool hobbies. I just hate that I have no one to share any of that with. I'm sick of being single lol.

My partner and I have been together for 5 years, and it’s getting to the time where he is going to propose. We already wear rings because in our country we have common law, so we are kinda technically already married, but we do want to get married married.

We have decided that he will be the one to propose, but my question is what did you guys do about the rings? I will have an engagement ring, but he doesn’t know if he should get one too. Do we buy him one after? Does he only get a wedding ring? Do we not wear rings?

Anyways, just looking for ideas on what others did.

Thanks!

i was playing Inqueeries (gay cards against humanity) with my friends and we found this prompt card. none of us could read the card in a way that made any sense at all. just like grammatically we couldn’t figure out what this is supposed to mean.

I am a 25 fresh general practitioner doctor in Jordan. My family is trying to push me to get into residency here in Jordan through joining the army or the ministry of health, which will make me stay here pretty much the rest of my life. The problem is that the job market here is so bad that whatever I save, I end up spending just to live here.

I have been applying to multiple countries, but to be able to practice medicine abroad, it needs a lot of money to take the exams and eventually move. I have tried to enter through research in some fields I'm interested in, but I still got rejections due to lack of experience. I kept my options open so for jobs in the medical field, not minding starting in other jobs and grow slowly in an environment I can be predictive until I can be research or practice medicine again but it feels like I am hitting a wall.

I also tried contacting some asylum organizations, and they told me I need to already be in the country that would provide me support, too. I feel like my hands are tied, and I don't want to end up here being forced to marry a woman I don't love and live a life I don't want have. It's just I like men, and I want to fall in love with one one day or at least be free with my sexuality and likings without being judged.

I know this might not be the place to tell this story, but does anyone have an idea if there are doctors who were in my place doctors or organizations that might guide me or help?

i’m 23, and have recently begun transitioning. i’m rooming with my roomate who’s a trans girl who’s well into transition, but a few years younger.

She’s a relatively nice person, but as much as i want more queer and trans friends, i just feel like i can’t relate to anything she says. Every time she talks it’s in this very sarcastic and flamboyant way that just feels so foreign to me. It feels like everything that comes out of her mouth is some pop culture reference or line from reality tv, and i genuinely don’t understand half of what she says.

The thing is, before i began transitioning i was a relatively masc bi guy. She, on the other hand, has lived her life as an openly flamboyant gay boy before transitioning, and i fear that our different life expirience make it nearly impossible to communicate.

i feel like everything i say is so genuine, but everything she says has some weird niche reference to something. it also feels like she just talks and talks about herself but doesn’t really ask a lot about me or seem that curious tbh. and it feels like every time i try to make a joke or talk about something it just doesn’t land or she’s not that interested.

all of this is really frustrating because when i had all straight guy friends, i felt similarly but in the other direction when they would talk about sports. it’s sort of what i would imagine being bi racial feels like, never fully fitting in with either group.

anyways, im not sure if this makes any sense or anyone can relate, but im kinda not sure what to do here… i feel like a fish out of water, and ik it sounds stupid, but i lowkey get kinda dysphoric cause especially when it’s her and my gf who is of a similar path to hers, i feel like a boy in a group of girls. any advice would be super appreciated :/

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Hello everyone. I just wanted to ask a question that ive had worries about for a while. Is it normal that some people cant keep their member up during bedroom activities? Ive been worried that during sex i wont be able to keep my own member hard. Its why ive stopped myself sleeping with other guys since its been such a worry.

I guess my question is it normal & does it happen to others? Why does it happen? I think it might be tied to my anxiety but im not sure

La verdad es que me he dado cuenta que muchos hombres en la comunidad gozan de buenas posiciones económicas, Se me hace que son súper inteligentes para los negocios y yo quiero saber qué hacen, Ojalá alguno esté dispuesto a compartir sus conocimientos.. No tengo grandes estudios, Pero soy echado para adelante y no le temo al trabajo

It's a sincerely question

I know this would normally say "I have fallen in love with my straight best friend" but in this case, my best friend is also gay. We've been best friends for over 10 years now. We've never been sexual, not even once, but I've always known I've had strong feelings for him. For most of our friendship, he's been in a relationship. He was single for a short while recently and I more or less let it be known that I was attracted to him. He quickly shut it down and basically said dating me would be weird because of how close we are; he views me like family. He's been dating someone for about 5 months now and it's VERY serious. For the first time ever, there have been talks of engagement. I hate this because when I try to date someone, all I think about is him and how bad I want him. I ruin all my possible relationships because of this and I'm worried I'll never be able to have a healthy relationship. Anyone ever been in a similar situation? It sucks because we'd be the perfect match. We have the same hobbies, likes, dislikes, etc. I guess you just can't make someone love you, regardless of how much you love them.