r/transfriendsau Mar 13 '25

Process/steps 👋 Welcome pack

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Welcome pack for new members and/or first time post or comment makers

Welcome to r/transfriendsau a community for Aussie trans people making friendship/connections with other Aussie trans people. - 18+ Aussie trans people only -

see here for Community rules👈

When Searching for friends on r/transfriendsau please note you can filter by state, by clicking the state at the top of sub example shown here👈

🔷️ r/transfriendsau member setup steps

For those new members to r/transfriendsau Or if you are looking to make your first friendship post or comment on another members post please follow below steps/guides

🔸️Click here for How to update your user flairs (Mandatory to make any "posts or comments" within community) Only needs to be done once .

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members How to make your 1st post in r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for help with r/transfriendsau chasers contact management

🔸️Click here for tips how to get the most out of using r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members for other supportive/recommended trans communities to join and use to get the most out of reddit + other useful resources

🔷️ r/transfriendsau Discord server onboarding guide

🔸️Click here For those interested in the community Discord server

Community Updates

Growth and development


r/transfriendsau Feb 10 '25

Community announcement r/transfriendsau community discord

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Is an 18+ trans people only - cis-free space, available to verified r/transfriendsau members that are currently living in Australia.

This private discord group chat is highly selective on who joins to keep the chasers at a minimum.

✳️Please ensure you review below before applying for access

Community discord eligibility criteria.

Verification options.

🔸️Primary option - reddit profile trails

Requesting discord access member will have a long and clear history within their reddit profile trail history actively posting/commenting clearly identifying as trans in other trans reddit subs.

🔸️Secondary options - other social media profiles

Other social media options will be considered during onboarding process to verify if required.

🔵 How to request for server access

Please contact mods, requesting discord access by

👉clicking here

Verification options. continued

🔸️additional option - Build up reddit trails

For Members new to reddit/no reddit profile trails or no other social media profiles for review.

If discord applying members are new to reddit (I.e have no reddit profile trails/other social media profiles for review) they are welcome to use the main reddit r/transfriendsau community.

While doing so users can build up their reddit profile trails. There are some other good trans subs to try with questions/posts/comments that will also help you meet your eligibility requirements are shown below, ensure when you post/comment in these subs that you state how you identify example mtf/ftm/trans non-binary/transwoman/ transman etc the more historical trail of you identifying as trans in these subs the more eligible you will be for the community discord

Example Trans subs

r/transgenderau

r/translater

r/transpositive

r/transplace

r/mtf

r/NonBinary

r/ftm

r/trans

If you identify as trans, but not yet meet the verification options, all is achievable if you actively use reddit, with the guidance shown above.


r/transfriendsau 1d ago

trans vic 20 Melbourne i want trans friends :0

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53 Upvotes

Love all my cis friends but like no irl friends on my same wavelength lowkey sucks, so i want to change that 🫶🏾

i’d say my biggest passion is photography, although i’m currently in the burnout phase of my hobby cycle. I really enjoy playing board games (botct, feed the kraken, root etc), pool and thrifting. As of recent hyper fixations, i’ve been enjoying water colouring and journaling.

With friends i really like just spending time doing literally whatever; i’m the type where like errands + yap is a hangout (goes hand in hand with my broke arc 😭) i also have rlly good music taste trust me!! 👅

open to messages :), shoot me ur insta if like sidequests are ur things, let’s yap girl (or like whatever gender idc :p) 🫶🏾


r/transfriendsau 2d ago

trans nsw Birthday Party Look, CC, NSW.

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97 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau 3d ago

trans sa Hi All

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Hi everyone lucy here I am 25 years old looking for friends to hangout with go to the shops, and just be myself around, I enjoy playing video games such as fortnite, many strategic games, shooters, and campaign based games, I have just moved here after being in perth for a year.


r/transfriendsau 4d ago

trans sa 42 NB new to Adelaide, looking for queer community

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Hi! 42 afab NB person looking for friends near the CBD (or even further North as I’m out as far as Gawler for work, at times). Moved to SA about 6 months ago from Upstate NY (USA) and missing having connections to a larger queer community. Have been trying to make friends in person but I’ve always had the best luck finding likeminded people online. Fancy a coffee and a chat? Want someone to drive around running errands with? Have a thrift and library day? Like to catch a movie or go to a local hardcore gig? Even better, play music and need a band partner? Would love to make friends locally but also open to people in Melbourne (have some trips planned in the next few months so would love to get together while I’m in town!). Hit me up, bestie(s)!! Let me know what you like to do now that the weather is getting so nice out.


r/transfriendsau 6d ago

trans vic The magic of estrogen

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156 Upvotes

(EDIT: Please do not send unsolicited DMs, its not why I posted!) Over six years of HRT - Looking like I'm in my 20's when I'm into my 41st year on this planet. (And yes, the tattoos are real lol - like 9 out of 10 Millennial trans girls, I am a catgirl at heart 🤣


r/transfriendsau 6d ago

trans wa WA Perth from the worst feeling to euphoria is truly wonderful 🥰

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42 Upvotes

Have a great day everyone if you like me or not 🫶


r/transfriendsau 6d ago

trans wa Genderfluid looking for friends in Perth :)

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13 Upvotes

Hii I’m Skye, an 18 y/o student looking for friends!!

I like gaming, window shopping, socialising, watching movies and trying new things!!

PM me if you wanna chat 😇


r/transfriendsau 7d ago

trans sa 29 transfem from Adelaide 🥰

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206 Upvotes

r/transfriendsau 9d ago

trans vic 23 Year Old Neurodivergent Trans Woman From Melbourne Looking For Friends.

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75 Upvotes

Hey lovelies I am a 23 year old trans girl from Melbourne who is looking for friends I am on the spectrum and I have a couple of friends but I would love to make more friends. 💜


r/transfriendsau 15d ago

trans vic 29. Non Binary. Looking for commited online friends

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29 years old
Australian 🇦🇺🦘
Non binary (she/thet/it) 🏳️‍⚧️

Hey all!
I’ve come back to reddit in hopes of making new, wonderful and (hopefully) lasting connections.

When I’m not working, I tend to keep myself pretty isolated, so I’m looking for people I can really put the time into getting to know and developing a friendship with!

For the most part, I enjoy working out. Wouldn’t say I’m super strong, but I’ve done it for years now and I try my best.

With the time I have left, I often find myself writing when inspiration randomly strikes, or binging a show/watching a movie when I can pull myself away from Tik tok.

Not stunning at talking about myself, so feel free to ask me anything you might like to know.

Can’t wait to hear from you 😊


r/transfriendsau 16d ago

trans nsw 24 transfemme central coast : )

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Hi : ) I'm on the central coast in NSW and I've been really yearning for more close and supportive friendships. I'm 3 years on hrt and I keep talking myself out of showing up at the few local supportive venues lol. I'm way more comfortable in 1 on 1 friendships. I need to get out though! I'd love to just know if there's anyone around who'd be interested in chatting and seeing if we click? and maybe it'd be nice to try something new I'd usually be nervous to go to, or just to hang out irl without it being a big deal.

I'm a mostly-binary trans woman and I'd really just love to be included in some circles that are more queer or creative at all. I really regret not reaching out to other trans people irl earlier in transition X ) I have a few friends (one of them trans) but I don't feel like they really get any of my personal stuff. I'm a big yapper (I'm always that friend who thinks everything *is* that deep, it's not entirely intentional it's just how I'm wired). I used to have big time anxiety/mild agoraphobia which I've tamed a bit, and I like videogames and art and nerdy stuff. But I'm happy to learn about new stuff too or try new hobbies.

My biggest bugbear is I think good friendships take effort and change and aren't always comfortable, and I really like to be honest and direct. I've been struggling with leaning on being hyperindependent and keeping everything to myself for a long while so I would really love a change of pace in slowly working up to some friendships that are more honest and supportive : ) I try to keep myself from harping on the same things too much but it's really cursed doing this whole transition thing all alone lmao.

I have a lot of free time rn, I'm trying to get my ass into gear to study next year 😭 after running the therapy and voice training gauntlets for a little while being a functional organised adult is next lol. I wanna put more time into sports, hobbies, socialising, learning art, reading, being in nature and studying next year too : ) I'm frankly a bit of a loser rn so I'd absolutely love friends who can include me but also challenge me and do some difficult stuff together !!

Anyways pls say hi if you're on the central coast (or maybe further out like Newcastle or Sydney too) : ) where are you guys??


r/transfriendsau 16d ago

trans nsw 31, Sydney, who would like to meet up for a coffee in the inner west or Hunters Hill area this week?

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104 Upvotes

After recovering from a few months of health challenges, finally ready to be out and about again. Would love to meet some new people and catch up with others 🥰 Generally flexible but I love a pretty Cafe or quiet hotel bar, city, inner west or Hunters Hill area are my go to generally. Would love a bit of company while I job hunt haha 🤭


r/transfriendsau 17d ago

trans wa Perth W.A Sunday feelin cute

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39 Upvotes

Even if its in my own mind I so happy 🫶


r/transfriendsau 17d ago

trans vic 40 trans fem Melbourne western suburbs

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9 Upvotes

Hey I'm Fae, I'm a homebody with 4 cats (will post photos in comments!)

Looking for friends in Melbourne (or online), I'm out west near Melton.

Bit of a homebody due to CFS but I like gaming (Xbox and PS5), board games like Ticket to Ride, building Lego, and getting tattoos.

Been feeling isolated lately and my mental health hasn't been great, so wanting to make gentle caring friendships! Hoping for people who I can meet irl but I'm also chronically online lol


r/transfriendsau 17d ago

trans wa struggling to find friends in Perth

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hi all

I’m a 19yrold trans girl in Perth and i am struggling to find/keep friends !!

All the trans friends I’ve made here either ghost me or are superficial

I am interested in kpop, cartoons, fashion, food !!!

Lmk if u wanna be friends !


r/transfriendsau 21d ago

trans nsw 28 mtf Newcastle looking for friends, connections…something.

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40 Upvotes

Hi, my name’s Emilie. I posted a few weeks maybe months back but I got cold feet and deleted it. I’m a tgirl in Newcastle just looking for any kind of connection. Gamer friends, friends in general idk. I dont have anyone irl since coming out and starting hrt 6 months ago, and I dont know what to do.

I’m neurodivergent, ADHD. I play games on my pc, I make music, I like silly card games and tabletop stuff. Huge movie fan. Massive Spider-Man fan! I’m extremely self conscious about my body, my face, everything about me. But I try my best and try to do better. I’ve lost 32kg so far and it’s turned me into a bit of a health fiend as well.


r/transfriendsau 22d ago

trans qld 26 trans woman north Brisbane. Looking for friends

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Hi, I’ve recently moved to Brisbane north and am looking to meet some more people.

I ride motorcycles, like photography and unfortunately work full time 😅.

Hoping to find people to hang out with, go out and try things and maybe shopping.

I’ve spent most of my life in Gympie and am a very anxious person, but I will 100% be too chatty once I get to know you 😁. I’m 3 years into my transition and still pretty andro but trying to put myself out there and build confidence.

Feel free to comment below or dm


r/transfriendsau 22d ago

trans qld 31 questioning from Gympie looking for friends

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I've been thinking about this for a while and finally going through with it. Recent events have made me realise I should just reach out and see what's out there. I'm looking for anyone that's even semi-local to chat with.


r/transfriendsau 23d ago

trans qld 19, mtf Gold Coast looking for freinds

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55 Upvotes

Name is Emiley/rose undecided still, looking for friends to hang with and Ideally to have a good support network with. I also game mainly valorant but open to try some new ones. Thanks for your time xx


r/transfriendsau 23d ago

trans qld 30 mtf looking for gaming friends in Brisbane to join me and a group of friends as a gaming group that meets at the Meeple and Mug in West End for regular meetups.

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r/transfriendsau 27d ago

trans vic 18 Transfemme Melbourne x3

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75 Upvotes

Hi hi everyone, I'm Hazel !! I am 18, ive been trans for nearly 5 years mostly closeted. I've been on and off of posting because of self related issues. I've decided to come back cause I need some more trans friends from around and just friends in general !!!

I typically sleep, go to uni and work honestly. I don't get up to too much but I love to go out when I'm able to ! My messages are open to anyone because I'm really bored and would've just love to talk to people too so yippieeee x3


r/transfriendsau 27d ago

trans vic Hiii! 19MTF from melb looking to connect with people more

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109 Upvotes

i noticed recently i struggle a ton with making friends or making any solid connections with anyone irl, so i figured it'd be a nice change of pace to try make some friends here. my biggest passions at the moment are music and photography, been a big fan of those for a while.

i'm happy for pretty much anyone to message, i have no preference for age or gender or anything, just as long as you're nice :)

hope to hear from some of you lovely people soon!