r/lesbian Jun 09 '25

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Important thing about our pride flag.

132 Upvotes

https://ko-fi.com/emilygwen

Emily Gwen is the creator of the famous 7-stripe lesbian pride flag, and she is now struggling financially. Well, you may just ask, "why don't you just pay like $100 to her and not post about it here?" Sadly, I am also financially struggling, and can't help her directly through giving her cash. (I do not know how to give it a proper flair so correct me which one should I put here instead)


r/lesbian Dec 14 '22

Only Vans IMPORTANT: Why we ban posts asking if people want to chat.

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565 Upvotes

We get a lot of posts like this on here. Users who say they want to chat with a lesbian, sometimes with a selfie of a cute girl. In our experience here, the majority of these posts are made by cis het men, looking to catfish the users here. Sometimes they steal photos of people and pretend it's them.

Any posts like this will get you banned, even if you are a member of our community. We've made it clear that we don't allow this in the rules.

For anyone who doesn't know already, this subreddit used to be a porn subreddit ran by men. It was reclaimed but we still get a lot of traffic here from those people, so please be very careful about who you talk to from here and please report any posts like this incase mods don't see them.


r/lesbian 8h ago

Literature What do i say now. Meow

7 Upvotes

So to keep it short i (18f, lesbian) met this girl (18f, bi) like a week ago at an event from our university and i asked for her number cuz i thought she was cute. I should've clarified my intentions at the beginning as now im unsure if she just wants to be friends or what. Which i would be fine with, but i just wanna know. But maybe lets not ask that right now. So anyhow we hung out the day after we met at her dorm and baked brownies together which was fun but the next day she never texted me. So i texted her eventually but she was very dry so i kinda just gave up. Well anyhow last night i texted her "meow" (idk why okay 😭😭) and she replied this morning with "meow" as well. Idk what to say now 😔 helpy

(I didnt know which flair to use)


r/lesbian 8h ago

Literature Sapphic September Event hosted by Ren Rousseau

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5 Upvotes

r/lesbian 1d ago

Arts! Late-Bloomer Lesbians-Share Your Story Through Art!

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7 Upvotes

r/lesbian 1d ago

Literature Lesbian heated rivalry

6 Upvotes

For seven years, the world watched two women hate each other.

Grace Yang is the sun, warm and inescapable and brilliant. Mila Vuković is the ice, all cool confidence and sharp angles. On the court they are the greatest rivalry their sport has ever produced. Off it, in the gaps most cameras never caught, they are something the world would never have believed.

No Love Lost is a loosely based lesbian take on the premise of Rachael Reid's Heated Rivalry. It is a love story told inside out: a decade of longing hidden in plain sight, in front of millions, disguised as its exact opposite. It's about being the most watched person alive and the least known. About the walls we build to survive the thing we can't afford to want. About how for some people, who they love can destroy their lives. About how the truest thing ever said about you can be the thing everyone gets wrong.

Everyone thought they knew this story.

No one knew the half of it.

https://archiveofourown.org/works/91674771


r/lesbian 2d ago

Arts! Ayooo

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144 Upvotes

r/lesbian 3d ago

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Looking for fellow Somali Lesbians

1 Upvotes

😊🩶


r/lesbian 3d ago

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ hiiiiii !!!!!!!! 😛

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r/lesbian 3d ago

Fashion do i look gay? only men ask me out

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0 Upvotes

r/lesbian 3d ago

Satire how to properly finger a girl

0 Upvotes

i am fairly new to sex and finally got my first gf who has more experience then i do. a few times now when ive been fingering here with two fingers doing the come here motion she has told me “not so hard” so im obviously hurting her. ik everyone says u have to “communicate” but i also want to suprise her and make it seem like ik what am doing so can some of u pls tell me what u think im doing wrong and how to improve
edit : forgot to mention im a male


r/lesbian 5d ago

Meme why are there no mascs left in my area 🥲

10 Upvotes

that’s it thats the post


r/lesbian 5d ago

YouTube YURI IN HUNTER THE PARENTING NEW EPISODE

0 Upvotes

NO OTHER SPOILERS HERE BUT HOLY SHIT DID NOT SEE THIS.


r/lesbian 5d ago

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ queer caribbean day party on sat aug 29

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r/lesbian 6d ago

Film/TV There is nothing better

16 Upvotes

Than cuddling up with a woman


r/lesbian 7d ago

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ Does anyone else's gf treat them like a bf?

20 Upvotes

My gf literally goes crazy if she even thinks i looked at any random girl i dont even know and whom i definitely didnt look at in purpose, and when i talk to any girl (even teachers?), and she absolutely is against me having friends?

Tbh when we first got together, the friend group i was in was toxic so i left early on in our relationship, and any other thought of me having friends also drives her crazy, and treats it as if i was flirting or smth (knowing shes bsfs with her ex which she technically cheated on me with while in a relationship, kept saying its nothing when it was, constantly defends her, and pretending that nothing ever happened, and whenever I bring it up she becomes the victim somehow?)

She once argued with me because i had a video on acrylic painting on my watch later on youtube because it had a girl on the thumbnail?

When i brought it up before she went crazy and the started crying saying that she just wants me to be hers

She also had a massive fight with me for having small talk with my cousin which happens to be a lesbian (which is muucchh older than me, we never talked beyond 10 minutes)

I once said that i liked spending time with my sister and she said "would u pick me or her?"

She also constantly fights with me just because i have an ex? I never looked at her, never talked to her, never brought her up on my own, and had cut all ties with before we were in the relationship. Literally just because. Knowing that while we were together she romantically kissed her bsf(aka her ex)rwice but "its ok cuz its on the cheek and whe wasnt really sure its romantic and she apologized for it"

Also for following women on social media that make stuff like feminist content, cooking, mental health, body building and dieting, pure educational content, etc

And she also claims that i turned her gay (false) and she never stops talking about her liking and fantasies about being fucked by older men, her endless crushes irl and online and both genders

Theres just too much that's fucked in this relationship and compared to the other shit, this is like only 20% of our issues. Im genuinely sick of it but i love her and im not sure if im overreacting

Thanks for reading if ur here, and id appreciate any advice


r/lesbian 9d ago

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ I really need help figuring out if I’m a lesbian or not🙁

19 Upvotes

So I’m 19 and I keep dating men even thought whenever I’m with them all I can think about is being with a woman instead. I have a boyfriend right now and he’s a nice person and he’s really kind. But I’m just not sexually attracted to him, and I find myself treating him like I would a woman I give him feminine compliments such as “you’re pretty” the thought of telling him he’s handsome makes me feel uncomfortable. I’ve kissed women before and nothing has ever compared to it. I really need help and I don’t know what to do.


r/lesbian 9d ago

YouTube We started a podcast about lesbian dating, exes & all the chaos in between 😂 — would you actually listen?

7 Upvotes

Hi everyone! 👋🌈

We're two women who have probably made far too many questionable decisions in the name of love… so naturally, we decided to start a podcast about them. 😂

We're 2 Lesbians Talking, and our podcast is basically two lesbians sitting down and saying the things you normally only tell your best mate after three glasses of wine.

We talk about:

💔 Crazy exes & relationship horror stories
🚩 Red flags we absolutely should have noticed
😂 The ridiculous/funny side of dating women
❤️ Love, heartbreak & everything in between
🧠 Things we've learned from our past relationships
🌈 Real-life lesbian experiences

Our first episode is all about THE EX FILES — some of the genuinely crazy, horrible and unbelievable things we've experienced with exes.

Some stories are funny.
Some are painful.
Some make us wonder “WHY THE HELL DID WE PUT UP WITH THAT?!” 😂

We're not relationship experts and we're definitely not pretending we've got everything figured out. We're just sharing the things we've lived through, laughing at the ridiculous bits, being honest about the difficult bits, and hopefully helping someone else recognise a red flag before they have to add another chapter to their own Ex Files. 🚩😂

We're brand new, so we'd genuinely love to hear from other lesbians.

And if this sounds like your kind of chaos, we'd love for you to check us out. ❤️

We're 2 Lesbians Talking.

Real stories. Real laughs. Real love.

🎙️ YouTube: 2 Lesbians Talking
🎵 TikTok: 2 Lesbians Talking

Full disclosure: yes, this is our own podcast — we're just two lesbians trying to find our people. ❤️


r/lesbian 9d ago

Arts! my favorite lesbian, noelle from deltarune!

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18 Upvotes

r/lesbian 9d ago

Queer owned business 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ just a genuine question

2 Upvotes

hello everyone, maybe this isn't the place to do this question, i don't want to offend anyone but i have been wondering if maybe i was sapphic or even lesbian? I'm an afab non binary, and i don't like men, i can't see myself ever involved romantically or sexually with a men, but i can't see me exactly with a woman. i love women, i don't know if sexually but i could be romantically involved with a woman maybe. or maybe I'm just aro ace lol. anyone had felt like this?


r/lesbian 10d ago

Film/TV Maybe you’d be interested in a a little sapphic media tracker? 🤩

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58 Upvotes

I often see people asking for WLW/sapphic movie and TV recommendations, and I realized I had the exact same problem — I’d find something interesting, forget about it, and then have no idea where I saw it again lol.

So I ended up making a little site for myself where I can keep track of sapphic movies, shows, books, music, anime/manga, and games: https://sapphiclist.com/

It’s still pretty rough and definitely missing a LOT of stuff, especially outside of movies and TV. I’m also sure there are tons of things I’ve never heard of, so I’d love to hear what everyone’s favorites are.

What’s a sapphic movie/show/book/etc. that you think more people should know about? 👀

Also, if you happen to look at the site, I’d love to know if you find it useful or if there’s anything that would make it better. I’m mostly just making this because I wanted something like it myself. 💕


r/lesbian 9d ago

Literature Books for closeted lesbians?

1 Upvotes

Books that have no indication of lesbian representation at the back or on the cover? I've got 'Murder by Memory', 'The Truth about Keeping Secrets' and 'Fingersmith'.


r/lesbian 10d ago

Satire Are butch and femme exclusively lesbian terms?

16 Upvotes

(I did not know what flare to use, this isnt satire, sorry </3)

ive always thought that butch and femme were simply terms that can be used by any queer person, but i saw someone saying that they are terms exclusively for lesbians. i tried doing more research but i keep on seeing mixed opinions. i just wanna make sure im using the terms correctly,,


r/lesbian 10d ago

Film/TV Thinking of watching Vigil

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32 Upvotes

I keep coming across reels from Vigil and I’m kinda tempted now lol.

So, those who’ve watched it, how was it?

Worth getting into?