My gf literally goes crazy if she even thinks i looked at any random girl i dont even know and whom i definitely didnt look at in purpose, and when i talk to any girl (even teachers?), and she absolutely is against me having friends?
Tbh when we first got together, the friend group i was in was toxic so i left early on in our relationship, and any other thought of me having friends also drives her crazy, and treats it as if i was flirting or smth (knowing shes bsfs with her ex which she technically cheated on me with while in a relationship, kept saying its nothing when it was, constantly defends her, and pretending that nothing ever happened, and whenever I bring it up she becomes the victim somehow?)
She once argued with me because i had a video on acrylic painting on my watch later on youtube because it had a girl on the thumbnail?
When i brought it up before she went crazy and the started crying saying that she just wants me to be hers
She also had a massive fight with me for having small talk with my cousin which happens to be a lesbian (which is muucchh older than me, we never talked beyond 10 minutes)
I once said that i liked spending time with my sister and she said "would u pick me or her?"
She also constantly fights with me just because i have an ex? I never looked at her, never talked to her, never brought her up on my own, and had cut all ties with before we were in the relationship. Literally just because. Knowing that while we were together she romantically kissed her bsf(aka her ex)rwice but "its ok cuz its on the cheek and whe wasnt really sure its romantic and she apologized for it"
Also for following women on social media that make stuff like feminist content, cooking, mental health, body building and dieting, pure educational content, etc
And she also claims that i turned her gay (false) and she never stops talking about her liking and fantasies about being fucked by older men, her endless crushes irl and online and both genders
Theres just too much that's fucked in this relationship and compared to the other shit, this is like only 20% of our issues. Im genuinely sick of it but i love her and im not sure if im overreacting
Thanks for reading if ur here, and id appreciate any advice