Hey there! :D

I just wanted to ask something that's been on my mind for a long time now. :)

I’m trying to figure out my gender. I have this feeling of feeling like nothing but a bit like a girl but then you realize it’s more like oh I feel pretty feminine or I feel pretty masculine and yet you still feel like you are something and nothing at the same time and you just don’t even know what it is anymore.

I’m so confused about this, especially because it just kinda changes. Although, the nothing feeling is pretty persistent almost all the time despite the oh I feel masc (which I LOVE and leans towards honestly) or I feel fem (which is nice sometimes! And def what my personality gives off lol) which is what changes. Other times I’m like yeah I’m kinda a girl and then it goes away and I’m like yeah it’s nothing again, and I don’t really care. I don’t exactly know what this would be, but I hope it makes some sense? 😅

Any help or suggestions is very much appreciated!! :D
I don’t mind questions if needed! :)

Hey guys!

22 year old university student here. In the last couple of months I think I began to question many things about my sexuality. I have been in a relationship for 2 years now and in the past I have had long-term relationships with men.

I was always sure that I liked boys, all my life. When I downloaded tinder after my first major breakup I only looked for boys and didnt even think about anything more.

Of course like most girls I know I have been kissed by other girls before. When it happened with my close friends it was nothing, like I have a best friend and when we were both single and partying we kissed sometimes but nothing more and only when we were drunk. So I had a few of that.

But in the last couple of months I feel like I am attracted to women as well as men. Im not sure of that. I am questioning my sexual orientation because I cant imagine being in a relationship with a woman, but I can imagine sleeping with one eventually.

I dont know what to do or who to talk to.